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Now, you may catch yourself thinking “why can't I find a boyfriend?” or “why am I single af?”. Don't worry; you're not alone and we're here to help you out. Here are some ways you can put yourself out there and be more open to new gay dating opportunities:

1. Join a LGBTQ+ sports team or group
2. Go to gay bars
3. Be open to people outside of your “type”
4. Keep your eyes peeled wherever you are
5. Put those good vibes out there—online and IRL!

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POV: you're talking to a guy who you're into and now it's time to plan your first date. Don't panic. Here are some gay date ideas to set the mood for a great time:

1. Go out for coffee (or take your coffee to-go and walk around)
2. Cook dinner together
3. Go to a workout class
4. Have a games night
5. Go for a hike
6. Have a picnic
7. Bar hop around your favorite spots
8. Hit up a local drag show
9. Learn something new
10. Take them to your fave restaurant