The best part is I'm willing to work for it! I can be driven and highly focused and yet an amazing procrastinator when I set my mind to it......oO(or is that DONT set my mind to it??!!) Life is about balance so those who's profiles scream they work hard and play harder I want to know just when do you actually relax? stop and smell the roses?? Yeah thought so!! For those of you all I have a suggestion, BALANCE in your life. Yin doesn't function without yang, dark has no value without light, and ANY relationship cannot last without communication.
***First off rejection is part of dating and if you can't be a grown ass person and handle it when it happens, then you really shouldn't be on this site. I just had yet another pretender get upset because he wasn't my type (#ernestlp71). Attraction is a two way street and calling me names after I've said no thank you, after you initiated...gives absolutely no credence to the ugly words you just tried to call me. However, it DOES PROVE my instincts were right on the money! LOL So if I don't respond gentleman you will understand why I hesitate...sorry. Ok on to more pleasurable discussions.....
I'm a woman that knows what she wants, and gentlemen intelligence and common sense are HUGE TURN ONS!!! That makes them the priority. A great kisser is important too, as is a serious interest in toothpaste, soap and deodorant. (sad day when I have to list something as a priority I thought should be a given) I also prefer men 6' or taller, but if you are a good person and a great kisser I might be willing to negotiate a little. oO(a "little" means an inch or two...not five);) I'm looking for someone that has a decent career in progress and making good money but is looking for that final piece to be content.
Former accountant that became bored and then went back to school for Nursing and found that the she has no luck in the lottery draw that is entre' to Clinicals. So now I am back in school working on IT certifications, as clearly this crazy computer fad is staying and I hate to pay someone big bucks to fix something that really isnt rocket science. oO(too bad they've turned the automobile into psuedo-rocket science or that would be next) But...What fun is there in life if you can't totally rock it to the core and try something new, ocassionally. I love music and its usually on at home 80% of the time. Rock, country, pop/top40. A bit of everything honestly. I can usually find at least one song from every artist I like, with one exception. Ask if you want to know. I love to travel, ride my Harley, scuba dive, jetski, as well as a lazy summer day sunbathing in the backyard reading a good book (see BALANCE).
YOU! Please be matriculated! If you don't know what that means then move on. It's hard to have a good natured battle of wits (aka debate) with an unarmed man. Spelling counts! LOL How about you start with a hello and we can see from there?
Although I appreciate the interest, I am here looking seriously and therefore would prefer you not be in your mid-20's. I realize that there are a few rare men out there that totally have their act together at that age but you are too few and far between, so 38 and over please. YES, I have heard it before that age is just a number, but you can't fake life experience and the knowledge that comes with it! Also if you are still deciding if you want to have kids, please click the next profile. I have managed this long not going there and I'm not starting at this point. So to keep things fair I don't want to get involved and then a year in you decide you want kids...then I've just wasted a year. I don't mind that you have kids already though.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Lunch, drinks or coffee, some where we can sit, socialize and get to know each other.