Well I guess I consider myself as a above average looking guy who is real about most things. I tell it like it is and sometimes that gets me in trouble On the other hand you do know where you stand with me. I have been told that I am ohnest and loyal. Those two words probably explain why my friends have been around for over 30 years. One since I was three and we used to take tubs together :). We should keep that to ourselves, he is shy but I wear what I am feeling on my sleeve.
I have a 14 yr old boy who means the world to me. Through the divorce he was and still is the number one priority in my life. If he needs me I will be there. I beleive that kids have it hard enough to grow up in this world, and he does not need mom or dads baggage :)
My stats above are real and I weigh about 195lbs. I go to the gym 5-6 times per week and play in a Bball leaugue as well with many of my high school buddies. Speaking of High School I just resigned as the head coach for a 4A High School baseball program here in Seattle to have more time for my son. I had a few coaches that believed in me and now I get to pay that back :). I have been told that my best feature is my hazel eyes. In college I got the nickname "eyes" I am not sure if it was my eyes or because I liked to look at the girls so much lol.
I want a woman that takes care of herself inside and out. I am looking for a outgoing fun woman who knows what she wants in a relationship. After coming out of a 13 year relationship I am not looking for any drama. I also need a good kisser, this might sound strange coming from a meat head but it is true. There is nothing more sexy than a good passionate kiss to get the blood flowing :). Oh I also love a woman who can dance, a little dirty dancing never hurt anyone right :)
I just want to meet someone and be in the moment. If we enjoy being together then we will make the effort to do so right? I do not want any drama, if it does not work for what ever reason we should be old enough to respect that.
If I have peaked your interest please send me a note, if not good luck in your search.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Wow this is hard because a date can turn so many ways so quickly. One wrong word and it can be over :)
I truely beleive that you need to meet casually first with coffee or a drink to see if there is a spark there. If that doesn't happen then whats the point. If that attraction is there then move along with dinner and the excitement builds. You think about touching her arm to see how she reacts.
Then maybe a soft kiss to make us both think about the next time we meet.