I am looking for someone who wants a deep friendship first and then we can go from there. My "man" must be open minded, considerate, romantic, and goal oriented. I say "man" because I am not looking for a boy, I don't play games and don't want to :-) He also needs to understand that, being a musician, I have a wide variety of friends and family; men, women, gay, straight, eccentric and straight laced, my match needs to be ok with that.
Also, being a musician, my taste in music is very eclectic.
Many have asked to hear me so: https://youtu.be/jrzujVus9I0
Here's a more resent one
I'm technically in Upland but work in San Dimas and La Verne. I don't mind driving and know my way around most of Southern CA. I grew up in South Orange County, but I am not a "Barbie" it is simply where my parents happened to have lived. I like to live simply and I am not high maintenance.
My "guy friends" have described me as genuine, sweet, and "as altruistic as they come" I guess I'll take their word for it. :-)
This will tell me if you actually read this. Here's a hint : don't compliment me on my "curves" or "the twins" or anything like that. I know that a guy interested in me is most likely a "boob man" but please, if you really want to get to know ME then don't be rude. Thanks :-)
Last thing, I don't want to seem egotistical or snobbish when I say this but please, be educated and write like a college educated human being. I do not need to feel like I'm grading remedial English papers in an email and I want to be able to have an intellectual conversation with the person I'm with. Again, I don't mean to sound rude but I've lived long enough to know what I want. This will also prove that you have read my profile.
If you don't like what you see, good luck in your search, everyone deserves to find someone who makes them feel special.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A first date to me is the chance to get to know each other a little better; a chance to allow for a "spark". Something simple like coffee or dinner is a good start. A movie or show is always there if we want to go. I am also a bit of a Disney nerd, I have a pass and love to go just to walk around a bit.