* update: those 1 and 2 word messages get blocked
* update: lately curious about tattoos and even piercings
Are you a police or military,
For some reason I am attracted to authority, in charge types.
Shy, funny and sassy. You decide.
Not perfect (but parts of me are excellent).
Too small some places, too big other places.
I believe my partner should be the boss in a relationship.
If your looking for a movie star, good luck. I wish you well.
Was reluctant to come on POF. Crazy girlfriend said I must! So, here I am.
Says I need someone who won't take sass...
Goal is to improve self, get changed, learn more, be more open minded.
Think that can be learned by experiencing other people.
addendum 1: jump in deep end - u can only learn ?
*note*: why am I recently attracted to the bad ones (not the nice ones)?
I appreciate POF because I've communicated with some mind opening people.
But POF is Not my whole life. That said it still eats into time in my 'real life'.
Said another way, please do not be offended or take personal if I do not reply to you.
A no-reply either means I'm not around, or your direction does not seem to be going my direction.
I still do wish you well. Thank you. :)
People sometimes ask what I'm looking for on here?
Some questions can be so hard to answer.
It might be easier to say what I'm not looking for.
I just got out of a "long term relationship" (called marriage).
Wow, finally met very interesting, no-strings-attached black man.
Introduced to some of his friends, then had to go back to his home country. :(
Great experience - defintely confirmed me to NOT look for long term.
Now I think a woman should get on her knees and taste the wine while it's in front of her.
Now I know, definitely NOT looking for long term anything.
Much more like; short term, friends, see where it goes from there.
Does this make any sense?
I like most any music.
But not rap. (but then again, if daddy, mommy likes it, then I better learn. LOL :
In school I use to like playing basketball.
But the jumping made me bounce around a lot.
I was afraid of giving myself another black eye.
I never knew whether to tie the girls up, or tie them down?
As I spend time on here, I learn.
Some have told me it's hard to pick through the real people from the shallow ones.
I think my girl friend is right, though. I'm starting to think it's easy...
- if someone communicates using 5 words ... drop them
- if someone asks for your phone number or where you live in 5 messages ... drop them
- no picture, or if name doesn't make any sense, or is numbers ... drop them
There, now you've just cut through 95 % of all the people that are going to send you messages.
Fishing should be much easier now. :)
I just read this observation and I think it must be so true:
Too many women like complaining that men don't say what they're thinking, don't speak their mind.
Then when a man does say something (that is naughty), women get all huffy, and talk about how bad he is.
Suddenly they forget that he was being honest, saying what he was thinking.
No wonder people can't figure women out.
Women can't figure themselves out!
- Please do not ask for my phone number. Not going to happen.
- anyone who asks for my name will only be given "Ready For Try", or a somewhat shortened version.
- if your really serious... please make sure your profile aligns with the message(s?) you send me.
Specifically, if your profile says your looking for long term commitment/marriage, don't send me a message saying you want a kinky fling.
If your telling me your highly experienced at training cats, then, to me, your profile had better state that as well.
Anything less, to me, your just a camilion, a shallow opportunistic typical cad.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Probably some place casual and relaxing, where we can get to know each other.
So, no naked bungee jumping or scuba diving. ( well, maybe... ? )
Or blindfold myself and wait behind a tree in a strange park ?