My name is Gayla. Im attractive, outgoing, and fun to spend time with. Im a Southern Belle and speak with a heavy Southern accent. Ways to describe myself. Im a good conversationalist, well versed , articulate and able tho hold my own at an alumni meeting or a fish fry. laid back, open minded, liberal and non- judgemental. I'm not high maintenance, set in my ways, or carry a lot of baggage. I dont like drama anymore than you. Im not fanatical about anything. I'm learning that the journey is just as much fun as the destination. I've had the good life and i've had it rough. I'm not perfect and I'm not looking for perfect. I abhor pretension no matter your socioeconomic status. I have a sharp sarcastic wit that loves nothing better than to meet its match ; but that requires someone that can be silly and self-effacing and have an actual sense of humor.
Things I like to do. Ummm. Exploring. Literally . up and down the coast. tidal pools. redwood parks. hiking anywhere.beaches. Motorcyclying. off-roading. rafting. camping. going to concerts.perusing used book stores. flea markets. yard sales. amusement parks. There is still a whole world of activities i have on my to do list,but those are the extras. Thats not everyday life. So what would be an ideal average evening for me (with you)? I like grilling, a good movie afer the sunsets where weve sat on the back porch around our little burning bowl or fire, burning one of course (yes, 4:20 friendly). You can have a beer or a glass of whatever. I dont imbibe anymore. Simple really.
Now, what do i want in a guy? Well, I've always been attracted to a masculine man . He cares about the hair coming out of his nose or ears but would think its strange to shave anything else. He may or may not be typically attractive but what he is , is confident because looking pretty doesn't matter to a man. He smells like Old Spice or Axe or maybe a cologne you're niece got you for Christmas , because shopping for scent is the most ludacris concept to him. You get the idea. Me Jane You Tarzan (with clean nails). Im not going to fight you to be the girl in the relationship. LOL If this sounds like you , hit me up. My time and my opinions are valuable to me . Oh please no sexting. I wont. I have nothing to prove. I have a healthy sexual libido. "Nuff said.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First dates really stink. Especially if they're blind dates. I don't like the "meet and greet". I'm all down for the scientific process. I would like to know we have a few points of compatibility before going out.