xavier_photon: Wisdom Listens.
Non-Smoker with Prefer Not To Say body type
Long beach, California
41 year old Male, 5' 11" (180cm), Other
Black, Pisces
xavier_photon is actively seeking a relationship.
Bachelors Degree


I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About CJ
wanna hear some real sh*t. I love attention yet cherish my space, such a cruel brand of duplicity. It's a contradiction that Im sure I share with a number of people. However, it takes a certain kind of woman to be able to enter that space and inevitably have my unwavering and constant attention. A lot of women like to use the phrase "i ain't no basic b***h", well.......my experience has shown me that maybe I need a basic b***h. I love a person with a great sense of humor and not afraid to laugh at themselves. I am calm, understanding and positive. Practicality is the order of the day. Im cool on pics wit women sucking their cheeks in or an excessive amount of make up (at least let me see what you look like a liitle bit). We've all been hurt, I choose to let the past be just that, the past. Moreover, I'd appreciate that you don't let the residue of a former love gone awry stain my good intentions and hopes to have a fun relationship with you. So many layers yet I am ultimately a very simple gentleman. And no, my real name isn't Xavier. Lol.
If I don't respond to your message, it's nothing personal, please believe me. My sincerest apologies in advance. Also, if you don't have a profile pic, don't message me and I don't wanna hear your reasons for not having one. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. And please, I don't wanna hear how too many weird men hit you up, etc. Quit being weird, you're on a freakin dating site. FOH! You will be blocked with a quickness that will confound the senses right after I message you that you are a weirdo.

If the first picture I see of you is with your a** to the camera, I'm cool. I don't care how sexy you are. It's sort of insulting that you think that's what you have to do to get a man.

Instagram: columboblack

To learn more about me go here: https://youtu.be/pGDZHrpKPYE

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Dinner a walk so I can hear you talk

instagram: columboblack
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