I've been told I have the Bad Boy look, but am a Gentleman inside.
I'm very easy going, down to earth, happy, confident, and very humble. I usually try to look for the good in things. It makes life so much better. I’m not in to drama of any sort so if you happen to be, please pass me by.
I don't drink. I don't like the taste of alcohol and I don't mind if someone I date drinks as long as it's not in excess. I have never used/tried any illegal drugs and will not date someone that is a current user (weed included).
I'm a jeans and T-shirt guy but can dress up nicely as well. I also have my s#*t together in life, a good job (already past my retirement date), no debt, and no baggage from past relationships.
I would like to meet someone that is looking to find a long lasting monogamous relationship. If you date more then one man at a time, please pass me by. I don't want to be just another ride on your carousel.
I’m very creative (drawing, painting, photography, videography, building, designing, etc.)
I enjoy going to concerts and like many types of music. My musical tastes are all over the board.
I enjoy going to comedy clubs. I've done open mic standup when I can since 2007.
I have one grown son (living on his own) that I raised on my own from the time he was 5.
I work out a few times a week to stay in shape, but I have a weakness for dark chocolate and some sweets. I'm looking for someone that stays in shape as well (no gym rats though).
I enjoy weekend getaways and day trips. Tahoe is one of my favorite getaways. Another favorite place is Disneyland - I love the creativity there. I also love being by water - lakes or the beach.
Finally, I loathe texting, so if we decide to communicate and meet, I'm one to talk on the phone (preferably) or e-mail in order to communicate in the beginning. I also like to meet sooner then later since you really cannot tell if there is any chemistry over the phone or in an e-mail, so why waste precious time.
What I'm looking for...
I'm looking to find a solid long lasting relationship with ONE special woman. I'm not in to dating a lot of women. I would like someone that is looking for ONE special man. Great communication, honesty (no liars, I just dealt with the liar/cheater type and do not have time for it) and a sense of humor are important. Hopefully you’re easy going, affectionate and like holding hands, kissing, and even sexual flirting with each other anywhere we might be. You also like a blend of staying home as well as going out. Nice teeth and good hygiene are a must.
No Pictures (more than one please) - No Reply. You know what I look like so it's only fair. That goes for photos where you're a mile away or have on sunglasses in all your photos. Eyes say a lot to me...
If you made it through all of this, Thank You for reading my profile. If there is anything more you would like to know, write and ask. Don't be shy. If I’m not your type, I wish you the best of luck in your search…
If you're making duck lips in every one of your photos, you should have listened to your mom when she said "If you keep making that face, it's going to stick like that..."
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
For a first date I think something simple like meeting for coffee is good because we can see if there is any chemistry between us. If there is, we can plan another date or even extend the initial meeting.
I prefer meeting sooner then later. I've wasted several weeks on a few occasions e-mailing and talking on the phone (where all seemed great), only to meet in person and find out there is no chemistry at all or to have someone disappear from the site all together. Who wants to waste their time on something that is not there to begin with?