I'm laid back and have no drama in my life. I m looking for a woman who has her sh*ttogether and is busy. As the saying goes nice guys finish last and I hate loosing.. Ladies I know how you should be treated and would love nothing more then to treat you like the queens you are. But it seems if you do treat someone like that then I get sh*ton. And I'm not alone, many of my friends have had the same outcome. I truly believe women like a bit of a chase. As the saying goes you always want what is hard to get or can't have. So I have decided to change the rules, no more labels. What is wrong with finding someone to spend time with , enjoying each other's company and if you don't hear from each other in a a couple days or a week it just means your busy. Everyone has sh*tto deal with, but why do you have to add to your sh*ton top of others problems.What's wrong with being faithful to one person enjoying every minute together and then going back to your lives until the next time. And I'm not talking about just sex and see ya later. It could be dinner , movie ,camping ect. or just good old fashioned cuddling. Why can't you just enjoy being with someone without the natural progression of a relationship. That is when people become comfortable the spark is gone and now it's just routine. The best part of a relationship is the first 6 months when everything is great and you can't get enough of each other. That should be the goal throughout the relationship. Maybe if the boyfriend and girlfriend stamps are not used and knowing there is always a bit if a chase it just may be the best non-relationship ever. Ttyl who ever you may be.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
How about we meet for a drink of what ever suits the time and place we're at, then talk about a date.