I'm totally happy and fulfilled in my life, and want to share the rest to come with a man who will offer a lifelong, mutually satisfying commitment that I can accept. New to POF...still feeling it out, not a subscriber yet. You can catch me with same i.d. at ok cupid dot com in the meanwhile :)
If you match my needs and are interested in meeting/ talking, please help me learn more about you so I can do that: I would love to see your Relationship Needs Quiz, and Chemistry. Quiz. Mine are open to you. Also, is your personality compatible with mine?
My Myer Briggs is Idealist group, I/ENFP/J. What's yours?
My Mr Right.
You are single, caucasian, 30-40's, educated, well groomed, no baggage, amazing, capable, outgoing, emotionally strong, reliable, financially stable, accomplished man who gives out great positive energy, know the difference between toxic and healthy relationships, and want the latter. We want to be challenged to learn, grow, stretch, mature together, to be emotionally strong and steady, intellectually titillated and spiritually expanding in an awakened, fun, adventurous, nurtured life.
I want a man who is confident in his own masculine energy. His presence gives me butterflies and lusty arousal. If he touches me, I might melt. His smell makes me want to nibble his ear, run my hand gently over... and whisper naughty things. His brilliant mind is a fair match to mine, lol. His biceps & muscular forearms has me transfixed. He is about emotionally capable & resilient thinking, doing, making decisions, getting into action in wanting to meet my core needs and building our relationship nest: a lifelong, smooth, harmonious, passionate, adventurous, fun, stimulating & satisfying relationship.
He is my action hero! Initiating calls, affection, sex, he is attentive, generous, encouraging and complimenting like I am. Like me, he is financially stable, loyal, trustworthy, reliable, caring, nurturing, as well as tender and secure in and out of the bedroom. We strive for purpose, growth and personal evolution as the underlying theme in our life together. In return for fulfilling core needs, he will have the most amazing, loving, sexy, adoring, appreciative and sexually receptive woman in his life... a partner in mutual deep connection in healing, wholeness, learning and growth...a safe harbor of undying compassion, loyalty, affections, love & acceptance in lifelong, devoted commitment. Sounds good? Feels great to me.
More about me...
I'm single, never married, no kids, and not looking to start a family. I'm a Myers Briggs E/INFPer, a trained intuitive-healer, energy medicine practitioner as well as CA licensed healthcare professional. I am highly empathic, heart-centered, loyal & caring, vibrant, healthy, youthful, compassionate, as well as highly intelligent, introspective, a deep thinker and feeler, creative, articulate, grounded and centered.
Personality tests say I'm a big picture integrator/ visionary / healer type, and I strive for purpose, growth and personal evolution as the underlying theme in my life. According to the Color Code, I'm equal parts Red=leadership, Blue= loyal, sincere and White=peaceful, and in some other popular quiz it says equal parts explorer, negotiator, builder and director.
It feels great to be in a well matched, mutually compatible relationship where there is emotional honesty and loving, authentic communication, where core needs are met. I hear it's very rare to find here or any online dating place, let alone elsewhere, lol. I'm interested in a great match in his 30-40's and ready for true love and ltr/ marriage. So, in the interest of total honestly/ disclosure, I am not the stated age! The pics are from this month, March 14th, 2013. I look and feel in my 30-early 40's, but am a lil older, and I admit I feel insecure about that! I have a huge hang-up about being over 40 and am not interested in men towards 50+. So, if you are still interested, and 30-40's, (or can get away with saying that!), I will share that bit of info about myself when we meet, lol. So, now you know and it's up to you and any hang-ups you have about age yourself, lol. Other than that, the entire contents of this profile is absolutely accurate and true, and I am not into games, lying, fraud or misrepresentation from myself or you. Please be honest and up-front with me also.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a Pharmacist, but went awol a while ago when I started acupuncture school and other training in energetic medicine as well as intuitive reading/ healing. I started opening up to spirit in a big way with that. Soon after I found my guru, received Shaktipat initiation (kundalini awakening), an intense mystical experience... and the rest is history.
I’m really good at
long winded profile writing, apparently, lol. I'm a certified massage therapist, (CMT), trained in Qigong TuiNa as well as other more bioenergetic modalities like Reiki, Medical Qigong, etc. Back to massage, I love giving & receiving great massages. Animals and humans get knocked out and sleep, drool. Even the ponies on the vineyard estate I live on are able to somehow go comatose on all fours when I brush them down, lol. So, if you are a natural healer and trained body worker, I want a massage really bad.
The first things people usually notice about me
My internationally minded attitude, and intuitive, multi-dimensional approach to answering tough questions. My ability to communicate complex, esoteric, technical concepts into easily understood terms. Physically, they notice my youthfulness and sensual, charismatic presence. I just took the quiz here and it's confirmed, I'm a idiot savant when it comes to humor, and a total Nerd, lol. Even so, when you get to know me more, I'm just a nerdy kid with an easy smile and a big heart.
The six things I could never do without
Love, Affection, Being understood, appreciated.
Touch, Embrace, Sensuality, Kisses, Hugs, Massage.
Spiritual, Conscious, Awakened Life, Being Fully Present.
Integrity, Honor, Stability but also Adventure.
Friends, Family, Great Food, Community.
Surrender to God; Freedom, Joy, Fulfillment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The question on my mind lately is 'how to be in a love relationship yet wholeheartedly still yearn and seek the divine within, the surrender to Self, that sustained state of exaltation of divine communion, which is necessarily a solitary thing, AND be in a relationship'? May be that's what tantra is all about?
The other 'big picture' thoughts I contemplate is to do with how to integrate energetics, bioenergetics, i.e. 'alternative medicine', intuitive skills and abilities and such into mainstream infrastructure; for example, full circle within the pharmacy profession. Medicine began as a spiritual discipline, how to bring it back as such in real, tangible, c
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Discovering how much we have in common as far as personality and sexual compatibility, attitudes, passions, beliefs and relationship desires. Discovering that we would like to explore a ltr together, have little if any baggage in the way of the makings of a great relationship, as well as to work together on mission-works, projects and good works. Oh, and I want to mention that a great date with an established lover would definitely include massage, candlelight, good mood music and lots of sensuality. We would already have screened each other as far as basic expectations & dea-lbreakers; e.g. safe sex, availability and preferences in and out of the bedroom. I'm not shy, will tell you exactly what I like, lol.
Correction on "Preferred Expressions of Affection":
FYI, the Relationship Needs assessment is pretty much accurate on all areas except the last section - it somehow reversed what I put down. So, and this is very important - I need Touch firstly, and close second Verbal connection, as well as thirdly - Quality Time, (e.g. no interruptions from the phone). Gifts are not important to me, either are Acts of Service, as these seem manipulative to me. I would love to know what Gary Chapman '5 Styles of Love' expressions are meaningful to you. Hopefully we match up!
Correction on 'Chemistry":
FYI, there seems to be an error on degree of 'Easygoingness' and 'Self-Control'. I assure you I am not 'easygoing' in that I have principles and boundaries to live by and can assert myself to meet and protect core needs when needed in a healthy way, while loving, honoring and accepting both of us along the way. It also says I have poor self control, haha. O.o I love these test, lol.