I believe to have true passion and pleasure there has to be a basis in friendship. I want to fall again. I want to feel butterflies at thought of being able to steal even just 30 minutes together. I want someone who is just excited to get a message from me as they are to send me one. I want eye contact and unbridled passion. I want an adult who understands we both have obligations but knows how to communicate and not keep me wondering. I need someone mature enough to despise drama just as much as I do. I need something organic, fluid, and natural. Most importantly I want us both to be completely comfortable enough with each other that we are not worried about judgement or embarrassment.
I simply want to be a bright spot in your day and you in mine.
... I like Fun. Amy Schumer. Things that go fast. St. Louis Cardinals. Rock concerts. A little kink in the bedroom. Anything blue. St. Louis Blues. Red white and blue bikinis. Anything bacon. Toys. Pie. High heels. Banana splits. University of Missouri Tigers. Michael Buble. Cycling. Wine. Walking through the Swiss alps at anytime of the year. Piercings and tattoos anywhere on her body. Wrasslin' with my gf if I know I can win. Obnoxiously cute girls. Toe rings. A walk along the river. A walk along the ocean. Hockey. Olive Garden. Traveling. Public display of affection. ACDC. Bacon. Flirting. French fries with tartar sauce. Punk music. Techno music. Painted finger and toe nails. Hot tubs, candles and Netflix and chill leading to kissing all over. Peace and quiet. Living local is good. Being loco is not.
Things I don't like... Miley Cyrus. Chicago Cubs. Little yapper dogs. Steam from boiling water setting off my smoke detector. Jerks. Cat or dog pooh on the new carpet. Paying bills. Too quiet. Time wasters. I have so little free time and if this is just an experiment for you then let's make it a good one.
I like to surround myself with people that are bright, creative, hard-working, kind and down-to-earth. Fun-loving people are good. Trustworthy people are even better. I don't like people whose favorite topic is them. Drama is not my game.
I'm a music freak. I like a little bit of everything - from hard rock to redneck country rap to jazz to new age-y weird yoga type stuff... , and don't rush me on the country stuff. Play the wrong kind long enough and I'll beat you senseless... Same goes for that emo/screamo weird stuff.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First date is a meet and greet. Almost like a pre date interview. We can sit and chit chat and get to know each other for a short time or if we both are really into it then it can last hours. Really the first meeting is about personallity and chemistry.