I'm a single mom of a 15 year old, who before I know it will be off to college.. so though she is my focus.. i know it's time to start expanding my own horizons and living my own life while nurturing hers. I figured why not give this a try knowing it takes some action and willingness to put oneself out there to make anything happen.. So here it goes!
I'm an extrovert, and been referred to as a social butterfly yet I treasure my alone time, and nights at home as much as the nights out. I love meeting people, great conversation, listening to live music, checking out art shows, learning and just plain living in the moment.
I hope to one day find someone who can be a best friend and love, a confident, supportive yet with some back bone. I appreciate a sense of style and confidence which is the sexiest thing about man, in my opinion.
I think because I grew up having guys as best friends, I'm low maintenance, which seems to make me unique.I have my own life so I won't be all up in your business or expect you to make me feel complete.. if anything, I appreciate anyone who brings out the best in me, even when that means being direct about something they see is holding me back. I have my business and daughter to keep me busy so I don't make a man my focus, therefore, I'm not the needy or clinging type... and if I find myself even going there, I take a look at what's happening and realize someone making me doubt myself is not the best choice to be investing time in... my philosophy anyways.
If your the type that usually sends a naked text within the first day or tow of talking... or requests one from others.. keep going. It may just me but I find that kind of crap quite distasteful. Don't get me wrong... I enjoy being playful and flirtatious and embrace my sexuality but timing and trust is a must.
I can always go for a game of pool and a beer.. enjoy wine, a fine dining or hole in the wall place. Love finding and sharing the hidden gems out there.
oh one final thing.. the dmixtress thing was from back when I was doing some radio and djing years ago.. not a s & m thing.. lol,,, you can't imagine the messages ..offering disclosure to save us both time if your looking for a gal with a door to a secret dungeon in her room. Sorry.. keep looking :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm down with meeting for a drink to a full on adventure.. really depends.