I have a wonderful man in my life. We have a great relationship built on common interests. We like doing things outside like camping and hiking. We like going out to concerts, bars and clubs. We both like open minded people who like to do fun things.
It is hard to explain in writing what we are looking for. These conversations are much better in person…but I'll try. I guess in the simplest terms we are looking for open minded friends to accompany us on our adventures or take us on theirs. Maybe a few drinks and then a competitive game of strip twister…or skydiving…or a weekend trip to Tahoe where we never leave the lodge except to skinny dip in the hot tub...or just laying around the house on Sunday watching a football or hockey game….We are new to the San Francisco area and would love to meet some friends who share our interests.
Oh yea, we like to keep our private life private so we don't have many pictures out there...but we look normal and are height weight proportionate. We understand that physical attraction creates that initial spark and we do have pictures we can share privately.
I wouldn't say that we are polyamorous and are not necessarily in an open relationship. I don't want to replace him and he doesn't want to replace me. We just want to meet fun people that we can hang out and do fun things with.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
We could do something fun somewhere that is not too loud. It is so hard to get to know somebody when you can't hear them. Maybe miniature golf, indoor rock climbing or a pub trivia night...