Ah, yes, the make it or break it point, if you make it past the pics and actually scrolled down. Oh, and that's my buddy, my iguana, on my head! And with that intro, I hope it shows how serious I take this site. I dunno, a friend convinced me to check out this site so I guess I'm here! I've pretty much grown out of my late night party days years ago and nowadays prefer to just relax at home or with friends without all the wild nightlife chaos. Once you get to know me you'll see I'm one of the most honest, understanding, and compassionate person you've ever met. There's also a hint of quick wit, humor, and sarcasm mixed in-between. I always put others before myself until it becomes apparent the effort I put in isn't appreciated or respected. I'm not the bad boy or prince charming, I'm just me so that's for you to decide if that's what you're looking for.
I'm not picky, judgmental or any of that. Stimulate my mind before anything else is my preference. Just looking for someone that understands it takes 2 to keep a relationship alive. Not looking for someone who says what they want only to end up wanting the exact opposite ... been through that TOO many times. I do live on my own, have my own car, a great job that I love but of course not everyday is paradise.
Not sure where else to go with this so I'm gonna wrap this up. I'm much better talking 1 on 1 than trying to write a Bio on myself. If you wanna talk feel free to contact me and perhaps we can get to know each other and see where it goes. I'm one of the few who actually respond to all messages sent, if you took the time then I'll compliment the courtesy. I'm cool with the Friends Zone if it only comes to that. I'm not one of those crazies that can't take "no" for an answer and, plus, if you're not interested then why should I be ... seems logical, right?
Update: as if anyone cares ... I quit smoking :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Anything but clubs, bars, or a movie. When I want to get to know someone I'd like to give them my undivided attention.