DISCLAIMER 1: I am not some ignorant bimbo on here to get JUST a booty call. Therefore, ANY messages sent to me along the lines of "Hey sexy girl", "Damn you look tasty", "I love a kinky woman", "how kinky are you baby?" WILL GET AUTOMATICALLY DELETED. I need an intelligent, dynamic, passionate, individual. Not someone who wants to see if I am just down to have sex with anyone who says hello to me. Don't send me something that is idiotic if you really want me to dedicate time to you. Send me something creative, and brilliant. SENDING ME STUPID PICK-UP LINES THAT I COULD HEAR IN ANY DIVE BAR IN PA IS A WASTE OF YOUR TIME AND MINE. I don't know how many times I have to say this.
DISCLAIMER 2: I have been through enough in my young life that I will always tell you the truth. Even if it pisses you off. That includes me telling you, if I don't think you are my type. If you freak out like a child, I'll just block you.
DISCLAIMER 3: I have a type. A physical type. Generally, I do not date black men. This is NOT RACIST and if anyone accuses me of that I will GO OFF on your ignorant self. This is because I have had a TREMENDOUS amount of bad experiences with both black men and black women. I'm not saying it never happens but generally, I do not date black men. Also, I NEED a man who is physically in shape and takes care of himself. I work hard to stay fit and I cannot respect anyone who doesn't care about their health or appearance. You need to at least be relatively slender and/or muscular. I'm sorry if you think that makes me shallow but it IS what it is. 4 years in the Army has made me a bit of a fitness snob.
IF YOU LINK YOUR PROFILE TO YOUR INSTAGRAM OR TWITTER YOU ARE A DOUCHE LORD. And I am not interested in you. Please and thank you.
I'm a 23 year old veteran of the Iraq War. I was in the United States Army for 4 and a half years and I'm now working part time at Pac Sun. I have one two year old boy who is brilliant and beautiful and will always be my number 1 man. If you can't deal with that, move along.. Right now I am just looking for fun, young, men in the area to get to know and MAYBE date down the road. I'm 5 feet tall, Honduran, with a blond, black, and faded pink mohawk. I LOVE to sing, dance, and just meet new folks at local bars and clubs. I love kids and animals. I'm very cautious with men though, because I have had a lot of bad experiences in my young life. I'm an intensely passionate and sexual woman and if I am not physically attracted to someone it seriously effects how I view them romantically. I am pretty blunt, because I see no need to beat around the bush with anyone.
I love 90's hip-hop, alternative rock, and punk rock music. I used to do Alternative modeling and maybe if you are lucky, I can show you some of my photos from my modeling... I have a large tattoo on my right thigh and I love tattoos and piercings. I think they are sexy. I would LOVE to meet a guy who can take me to musical events in the area.
I need someone who is confident in themselves enough that they don't have to constantly question what I do. I need someone who is able to walk the fine line between confident and arrogant... and I need a strong man because I'm a very dominant woman. I ABSOLUTELY require someone who can make me laugh and is intelligent. I can't take an idiot seriously.
I refuse to be with any man who can't love ALL of me, even the imperfections. I understand making small changes for someone you love but if someone has to completely change who I am to love me, then they are NOT meant to be with me.
If I talk to you on here and I seem interested, I might shoot you my cell number..HOWEVER, if I don't text you back automatically when you hit me up and you trip out on me, that is the FASTEST way to get me to stop talking to you. I can't STAND that needy, "Why Aren't You Answering me Automatically", whiny crap. If I give you my number, I'M INTERESTED. However, I have a life and sometimes I get busy. As it is, I'm just looking to meet people and maybe go on some dates, so until we have hung out for a while, you do not have a right to flip out if my work and my schooling are my first priority.
If you took the time to read this whole thing, thank you. I'm impressed. Hit me up. :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I guess my ideal first date would be something musical.. maybe going to a busy karaoke bar, or a club for us to dance would be awesome. Going to a music show would be even more amazing. I am always game to try new things so someone would get extra points for a unique date. I'd like to sit, eat, and just really get to know each other.
I am NOT some snob though, so I would be just as happy going out as sitting at the house, cooking and watching movies while we snuggle. I love to snuggle. Seriously, if you can snuggle me(WITHOUT getting an awkward snuggle-boner) and cook for me, I'll be your best friend.