I am a 47 year old d.w.m. & a father of two wonderful young men.I am employed full time & have been with the same company for over 26 years loyality is not an issue with me.
I am incomplete , I believe that life goes hand in hand there is a suplamentary & complementary for every thing in this world. A yin & yang , sun & moon, salt & pepper , hot & cold . where there is one there is the other for one can not exist without the other opposite yet the same. Far to long now my yin has been missing from my life.
I am a much better person when I have someone special to care for and love. Someone I can share life's many experiences with.I am a giver , I take great pleasure in pleasing others.with no one to please it leves me feeling empty , & incomplete looking for the one to make me whole again.
I am a passionate person and it shows in every thing I participate in. I like the outdoors & even have dreams of trying my hand at homesteading one day. I like bike ridding, snuggling to a warm fire, holding hands, writing poetry, & I am open to just about anything. I love new experiences & making new memories.
I find it funy , that people will say and no drama in their post. Please we all have drama in our lives. Isn't that what you are doing by posting here in the first place is looking for someone to share life with drama and all? Yes some drama is worse or harder to deal with than others, but to go through it with the right person just makes your bond that much stronger. Remembering that we all have problems knowing when to listen, when to hug, & when to advise. Being considerate , respectful , compassionate to your partner & their needs is all part of a relationship.
I believe communication is essential part of good relationship. I also feel there is to much weight placed on right & wrong, when most are opinions or perceptions. i believe one needs to be able to listen, respect , & communicate, each others thoughts & opinions.
Now for the part that is hard to write , I always feel that once I reveal these things about myself that nobody will take a chance to get to know me, to find out more. I am overweight a big guy. I wasn't always & don't wish to stay this way. I am also missing teeth hereditary blessed with straight teeth , cursed with bad gums. I assure you those are the worst things about me so their are no surprises I wanted to reveal them upfront . They are also the reason I have never posted before now, but I finaly got up enough nerve to try now.
If i sound like somebody you would like to chat with, to get to know , to possibely start a friendship with & maybe more or just would like to know more . Then please drop an email my way. Life is full of chances will you take one with me? I am willing to take one with you? Who knows maybe I am the yang to your yin!
Please , no one line replies tell me something about yourself when replying.
Well I haven't had much luck with this online thing. I guess I am not very good at it. I thought I would update my profile and explain what I thought it meant to be a man , how a man should strive to be, what makes a man a man.
What makes a man a man?
It is not the cloths he wears, or the title he holds.
It is not the strength in his arms,or the knowledge in his head.
It is not the size of his home, or the toys in his garage.
It is not his ability to provide, or the gifts that he gives.
It is his willingness to put others before himself.
It is his willingness to sacrifice all for others.
It is what is in his heart, what is in his soul
A real man is not feared, but loved.
A real man does not desire respect or untold riches.
A real man loves and desires only to be loved.......R.C.M. (me)
Pof states they added a new catagory, and make you fill it out. They want to know how ambitious are you? What a loaded question there is no way to answer that question from a drop down menu. I say behind every good man is a good women. I say how much do material things mean to you ? How old are you,what stage of your life are you in ? How do you measure success,and achievement? That is different for everyone depending on their stage of life, their philosophy on life.So if you would like to know more ask, and thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
Ambitious: having a strong desire for success or achievement.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I am open, to suggestions .