A few things about me. I'm single because I choose to be and have no interest in dating around until I find the 'one'. I'm in no rush.
I am a strong, independent perfectionist with a sassy & slightly sarcastic sense of humour. I'm equal parts girly girl and tomgirl. I am very driven and goal oriented, I enjoy challenging myself and take pride when I accomplish something I've worked hard at. My world revolves around one man: my little man and my hands are full between balancing work, being a single parent, activities, family and raising this little guy . . You will be second and you Have to be ok with that.
My desired partner is: respectful, loving, kind, humorous, upbeat and always for a random adventure. He has old fashioned values and is a Family man. He's very secure, independent, (men with children will understand this). I simply can't stress this enough: i can't do "needy", i'll make sure that I give you my attention I''m just not the girl that will text continually all day. And if you prefer to text and don't desire to speak on the phone, we are not compatible. I don't find only texting to be the adequate form of communication between two people .
I prefer if you have children, it would make dating in the long run much easier when we could incorporate children in our outings. Babysitters are expensive! A desire to expand your family is of the utmost importance to me at this stage in my life.
Ultimately I'm looking for a partner, life companion. Please don't misinterpret the tone of my profile : that maybe I sound blunt but I am the most kindhearted sweet loving and affectionate woman who is completely devoted and dotes on her partner. But make no mistake I am not a boring prude.
I have a ZERO tolerance for drugs (even pot)! I am NOT looking for a Hookup. Intimacy is important to me and I prefer a deeper connection. And NO, No,no I do not want a d+$¥ pic
And I'm sorry I just can't do: cats, man buns, creepy frizzy beards, the little hair patch on the chin - what is its purpose anyway?
And I'm just gonna leave this here ... http://thoughtcatalog.com/melissa-moeller/2016/04/why-modern-dating-makes-me-want-to-punch-myself-in-the-throat/
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Share a charcuterie plate and a bottle of wine .
This does not mean I'm boring and pretentious.
I'm a carnivore, I like a plate full of meat and cheese and something tasty to wash it down with.
If I was pretentious and boring I would want a side of kale and a glass of lemon water ??