upgrade2essence: ready for my last first date
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Ocoee, Florida
39 year old Female, 5' 5" (165cm), Christian - other
Black, Gemini
upgrade2essence is looking for a relationship.
Some college

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 8 years
Pets Cat  

About Me
I had to put this first...I've had men that were interested then when I advise them I'm not interested in them right away they talk negative.. Saying I'm going to get a Mr wrong, grow up already....Clearly I've bruised their ego... Men get over it, I'm sure your not interested in every woman that sends you a message.

I'm a woman who is about God first..focused, educated, hard working, loyal, adventurous, and honest. There is more to me than looks. I have children, two in high school and two in elementary which I love and will do anything for. I have also been married twice..once at 19 for 3 yrs then again at 29.. Was with him 9 yrs. I'm very independent, so understand I don't need a man I want a man in my life.. My Boaz.. I do watch sports, boxing, football, baseball, basketball, mma...

These are things I would like to know...
1). Why are you single
2). If you have no kids, why attempt to date me, knowing I can't have any more.
3). Have you been married
4). How many kids do you have, how often do you see them.
5). When faced with adversity, do you flip out, or drop down in prayer and ask God for direction.. If you don't pray..keep moving..
6). Do you seek God for direction and allow him to move... If not keep moving, I'm not interested in you.

I'm a person that prays ESP when I meet someone I'm interested in and if God does not vouch for you...know that you will not be apart of my life.. Since I've been seeking God for answers HE has been showing me the real in people..

To me these are important questions tells me a little more about you... Saves you time trying to come up with any lines.. Be you, trust I'm going to be me.

The men I have met, say that I look better in person... Oh if we do meet and you look nothing like your pic in the negative way, you won't see me again..

I consider myself a giver, I do care what people feel and think however I'm not a sucker, I do recognize game.

I'm from New York..Brooklyn, but I've been in Florida for many years, but I hold true to my NY side..

I'm not attracted to everyone, so please don't get offended if I'm just not interested. I prefer someone who is at least 5'10, that's because in my heels I'm 5'10 and I'm usually wearing heels. I don't care how many kids you have as long as you take care of them. I don't care for someone with gold teeth, pants hanging past your butt, someone who can't dress for any occasion. I enjoy reading things so for you to type "wuz gud wit u.... " I'm sorry that just doesn't intrigue me.

To be around me, you must be chivalrous.. If you don't know what that means, or it's not in you to do...keep moving. I'm a lady and will always be treated like one.

I will not settle for anything.. I know my worth..I'm very spoiled, but I don't mind spoiling either..

Anything else just ask

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