Age: 34
Age: 34
xo78: Hoping he's out there
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
Brooklyn, New York
38 year old Female, 5' 2" (157cm), Non-religious
Other Ethnicity, Sagittarius
xo78 is actively seeking a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Arts Administration

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 7 years
Pets No Pets  

About Me
Looking for an intelligent, cool guy with the ability to think critically, who is open-minded but serious about seeking a meaningful relationship with a beautiful, art-loving, musical, honest and real woman. If you are funny, that's a major plus ++. I'm here to find someone who I want to spend a lot of time with, who excites me, who values me for more than my appearance, who makes me laugh, think, and focus. And I want to do the same for that person, too. There's more to it of course, but that's basically why I'm here.

You should message me if:
You're not just looking for a sex partner and you really believe, based on this 2-dimensional profile, that you and I might share an intellectual and physical connection in person. Please be okay with dating a busy single parent. I like guys who are funny, smart, and level-headed. It's difficult to tell if you possess any of these qualities if all you send me is a one-word "hello." C'mon guys, surely you have more to offer... am I right?

Me at Work/Play:
Arts Administration
Cinema / Higher Ed
Dance Classes
Somehow roped into being in a band
Mom to a great 6-year old
Smiling. Laughing. Singing and dancing. Being polite. Being an active listener. Parenting. Word games. Taking photographs. Writing. Reading. Researching. Nerding.

Books I recommend:
The Time of our Singing, Richard Powers. Anything Kafka. Hemingway. Orwell. Vonnegut. Colson Whitehead.
But mostly I read the newspaper and books about photography.

I enjoy mostly documentaries about art and artists (loved 'Exit Through the Gift Shop'), quirky independent films and lots of quasi-indie mainstream stuff, but I'll fall asleep if it doesn't make me laugh or cry. Family trait.

I don't watch TV anymore, just Netflix. There's a great web series called Awkward Black Girl that I like. Portlandia is funny. Dave Chappelle. I am fascinated by animation, mostly gravitate toward wry comedies.

I grew up listening to a lot of jazz and Motown. In recent heavy rotation on Pandora: Best Coast, MIA, Weezer, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Res, Santigold, The Black Keys, A Tribe Called Quest, Donald Byrd, The Sounds, The Roots, Feist, Nirvana, Cake, Fela Kuti, Beck, Lucius.

I generally eat healthfully, but have a weakness for Thai curries. I'm also a big fan of the occasional hamburger. Also, can someone tell me where to get good Korean food in Brooklyn?

I spend a lot of time thinking about:
....Fine. Men. I'll admit it. Other things often occupying my mind: movement, fashion, race relations, hair, outer space.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's talk about it.

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