sodefsteph: Song of Solomon 8:6
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Leander, Texas
43 year old Female, 5' 9" (175cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Virgo
sodefsteph is looking for a relationship.
Some University
Property Management

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years
Pets Dog  

About Me
I am a single mom of two teenage boys. That just about sums it up! jk. I am also a professional singer here in Austin (sing background vocals as well as work on my own album). I also have a very nice day job that keeps me busy throughout the week. I also have my own business on the side, so yeah....I'm on the go alot. I have reached that point in my life, however, where I would like to share all these wonderful things with someone else. I have tried the online dating thing before, but always get the same result. Sure there's "plenty of fish", but they all seem to be swimming in the same school! Go out, meet, have a nice time...and if you don't give it up, that's it. Why be dishonest and try to be someone you are not. If that's all you want, it's cool....I'm sure someone will take you up on that offer. For me though, I am more about substance and less on "immediate gratification". I'm too old to do the one night stand option and frankly, that's gross. SO.......I'd like to meet someone that wants to take a Saturday and go to a different town, explore the sights,find a great hole in the wall, or maybe relax and watch a game. I am very much a sports fan.....I can watch pretty much anything except...well actually, I will usually watch any of it. I am attracted to MANLY men. Don't wax your eyebrows or shave because that's a little too metro for me. Don't get me wrong...they're pretty, but just not for me. I want someone who is ACTUALLY looking for a relationship. Don't say you are and then be one of the ones I mentioned above. Am I BBW? Yes. Do I want to be? NO. Am I changing that? Yes. I have lost 42 pounds in the last six months and am still going. I am proud of myself and I have always done for others before myself. I am FINALLY taking time to work on me and it's fantastic. I would like to share this journey with someone, but if you are not attracted to me don't deserve me when I'm skinny. lol. How's that for an exit???

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I am cool with anything, as long as the coversation is good. I am a talker, but not to much. I'm one of those girls who can totally hang with a group of people I've never met, and end up charming everyone. It's a gift.