AFTER U read my profile, if u still want to know p
First of all I am a widow. If that is a problem for u in any way please keep moving..I understand it is going to take a very strong and secure man to help emotionally support us because grief NEVER "goes away!" I don't play games, I don't want a "silver tongue" either..I am very blunt and upfront. .I know what I want and damn sure of what I DONT WANT!
If you expect me to reply to ur message, U will need to give me a reason why I would want to, more that a couple words..
I will start by saying that I am no longer able to have children, therefore if u don't have children of ur own I generally do not respond. Not to be mean at all..I just refuse to take such a PRICELESS gift away from anyone..I am a widow as I said, and an ONLY parent now..not divorced/seperated/single..not a choice either of us made, therefore not "single"..if u want to know me or anything about me then, feel free to ask as I am an open book..but ONLY IF U KNOW HOW TO RESPECT A WOMEN! :)
I do not need anyone to take care of us..I have an amazing job that I LOVE..I work because I love what I do, not because I have to. I own my house, car, and pay my own bills. I am seriously looking for the man God has planned for me to grow old with. I hate dating..I will only date someone if I would consider the possibility of long term...I am a relationship women with the right man. I am a very DEEP person. Spirituality is absolutely important to me.
Whatever will be will be , but 1 thing I can always guarantee is..I will always be me! I love people who are REAL! I expect nothing from any 1..all I ask is that U are honest with me, as I will always be with U! I am a giver not a taker, I am open minded, and I judge no one as I hope no one will "judge" me! I am waiting for a man who can be my best friend, honest and faithful first and foremost. A man who would never make his women jealous of other women, but the man who takes pleasure in making other women jealous of his! A man that will love me as much as I love him. One who never takes me for granted or takes advantage of how completely I love him. One who will love me at my worst as well as at my best. A real man that will protect me from pain and heartache, not one who causes it! I am sensitive, compassionate, romantic, and hard working and would love the same qualities in a partner. I care for ALL people, and despise people who only care to benefit themselves! My ideal match would make me feel so secure and special, as I do him, that we mutually feel that there are never enough hours in the day to spend with each other. Although alone time is cherished also. I want to be with a man that WANTS to show me...there is no one else he would rather spend his time with. Once you give someone your time... that is forever, one thing you will never get back, life is too short to waste precious time on anyone who doesn't deserve it! I am very fun, saracastic, spontaneous, caring, and loving. I just want to be happy and nothing makes me happier than putting a smile on someone else's face. My description is a generalization..just an idea of the kind of man I am hoping to find.. I am all of the above also. I do not ask for anything that I don't give.. I am absolutely a one man women, and REQUIRE to be with a ONE women man! If your interested hit me up..I EXPECT to be respected... therefore if u message me and want a reply, RESPECT is a requirement. I am a real women..I want to be swept off my feet..and in return I love nothing more than leaving my man speechless! :-) Obviously I will not waste precious time. If I dont feel the possibility of LONG TERM, then I will not pursue any further..Not being rude JUST HONEST. I am not the women who will lead u on!..I never intend on hurting anyones feelings and am genuinely sorry if I do! I know that God has a plan...I TRUST and have FAITH IN HIM!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
GOOD QUESTION. .Lets do a "meet and greet" first to see if we are even interested in planning a date. :-) I dont need a "free meal" and I refuse to waste ur time (or money) or mine..