It's a challenge to know exactly what to say when you're required to say something. Many times I am asked why I have an online profile? our culture has changed so much, of late. My plan is to reach out, cast that line, & who knows, I might reel in the catch of the day. Time will tell and we shall see. I simply hope to have fun and meet someone with a great vibe that desires to do the same.
It has been a bit of a challenge connecting with honest people. If you're looking for a "hook-up" please keep it pushing because that's not why I'm here. If you are true to you and don't mind getting to know someone outgoing, yet guarded, then let's connect and see what happens.
Let me be clear, I do not have a shredded six pack, so I don't need you to have one. I appreciate kindness & complimentary greetings, but I'm not shallow. I don't speak punk-ass, and I don't speak unrealistic pledges of love and devotion, when we've never met. Good enough. I look forward to whatever lies ahead.
There's a huge difference between arrogance & confidence, bullying is not sexy. Respect is given when it is received. If you're moody & angry at your ex, move on. This is challenging enough without the dramatics. Health & happiness to everyone. Let's have some fun!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
No pressure is what I truly appreciate. Just taking time to get to know each other. I am no slave to the "invisible" rule book. So if I am approached with such expectations, keep it moving. If I make out, with a big, juicy, passionate kiss, SWEET! If I don't then great too. I live in the moment when times are good. If not, then I take a break. Strangers that comment or critique my profile, calling it mean spirited or rude, who asked you? Guilty of something are you? STFU = shut the f**k up! If you don't like my profile, suck it. Tell someone who gives a ****. I surely don't. If my BAWLZ are bigger than yours, then I am not the right one. Secure & true need only proceed. If I am too nice, then everyone will think I'm easy. Nothing worth having is easy. We tend to value things that we put our hearts and hard work into. Just an opinion.