Question, what would be the point in adding someone as a favorite, then never sending them a message? I don't bite unless you want me to hahaha.....
PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME, OR YOURS, IF U R:
1.) Unemployed often or frequently incarcerated
2.) Under 30 years of age
3.) Just looking to get laid
A few things to those of you this may apply to: Okay so...high school has been over for a long time gentlemen!! Although you would never be able to tell by the way a lot of you conduct yourselves on here. Lesson of the day: A decent woman is not going to respond to you, if you come at her in a disrespectful manner, so there goes any hopes for you getting laid all together right there! Although I guess it helps in weeding out those of you who aren't worth a ladies time in the first place hahaha. It seems as though that should be common knowledge to all, however apparently it's not or I wouldn't be wasting my time writing this shit. So unless you're looking for a skank ass ho, you might want to try a more respectful approach. If I don't know you, I'm not going to be having a convo about my sexual preferences with you right off the bat!! If this doesn't apply to you, please disregard. I'm just trying to help some of these guys out on here hahaha. I've always wondered if that ever works for dudes in the first place?? Do some women actually respond to being talked to like some whore off the street??? And if so, then you have to question the type of **** you're dealing with in the first place.....certainly not someone you're gonna be able to take too seriously or expect much from.
Anyway I'm going to keep it real, and be real blunt here.....dealing with lil girls gets old, it would be such a turn on to meet a man who acts like a man. I'm not on here trying to meet someone to bang here and there, I'm on here to make some decent friends with people who have some depth to them, as well as some common interests and if it eventually leads to banging.....so be it hahah.
At the moment I'm just looking to make some kool friends to go out with and enjoy the summer and all it has to offer. Some laid back people with like interests, I don't have any expectations, I feel that adds unnecessary tension and tends to wrecks things. I mean don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to having a relationship should the chemistry be present and mutual. I like to leave things openended and if there is some chemistry then kool, if not, then hey its all good too, maybe I made a new friend and hopefully we learned something about ourselves from the experience.
Two things that will not get you points with me are liars/perpetrators and people with entitlement issues who feel the world owes them something but for whatever reason feel that they don't have to work for, or earn any of it. That's not how life works my friends, and that is not how you have quality relations with anyone. So if what I described above sounds like you, don't even bother hitting me up. I don't have time for people who have no interest in positive self progression and are okay with mediocrity in their lives. I'm interested in honest people and intelligent people. The creators, innovators, callaboraters, inventors, conversators, open minds, the thinkers and the people who aren't afraid to be themselves regardless of what others think - the 10%.
I'm self employed, and am a motivated, busy, goal oriented woman. I am educated, I have my sh*t together and I expect the same from you! I'm not asking much here....and what I mean by this is, I'm not trying to babysit or be anyone's sugar momma and in return I make my own money, so I'm not after yours. It should be first nature to be upfront, respectful, and to have goals and ambitions in life; and if you don't, there is something very wrong........especially if you are over the age of 30.
I admire a person who can be blunt and straight up.....believe me you're not gonna be hurting anyones feelings.......there should be no shame in your game. Even if you're a skumbag, own that shit, I have respect for people who aren't out there perpetrating......that sh*tis lame. You should never be ashamed or afraid to be yourself. Cause at the end of the day you're really only fooling yourself. Also I don't respond well to demanding people with their priorities ass backwards. I'm self employed and my business comes first! If someone is worth my time, I will always make time for them.
Personality wise I am kind of quiet at first, I like to get a feel for who another person is before I go telling them my life story. For the most part, I'm easy-going, I don't trip off much. However I find it extremely annoying when people attempt to insult my intelligence and be deceitful. My sixth sense is intuition and my intuition about another human being has never failed me in my life, not even once. Must be a Pisces thing.....they say we possess psychic abilities hahaha. For realz though, there is no reason for anyone to be deceitful. Even when people do fuct up shit, I have more respect for a person who can just be honest about a situation. Can't really be angry with a person who has the balls and decency to be honest about things. Even when things don't work out with others, at least I can still have respect for them.
Anyway on with my novel, and I have to say if you took the time to read this, I am very impressed cause most of the morons this sh*t applies to, are of course the ones who never learned to read ;)
I am spontaneous and adventurous by nature, I'm a lil bit out there, perhaps a bit eccentric lol.......def. not the kind of person who enjoys being on a strict time schedule, or the type to plan out my day minute by minute......especially in my free time. I'm a free spirited type of person, a wanderer, a night child.......and I find it boring to live my life in a ritualistic manner on the day to day basis...that type of thing both disinterests me and bores me to death.
I like to be around people I can learn something from, people who are positive, and who have the ability to make the best out of any given situation. I like to laugh, be silly, joke around and just be myself. I am
rarely bored, I always find a way to amuse myself no matter where I am and who I'm with life's too short to be a stuffy, uptight, bore or to be bored in the first place. I'm the kind of person who feels there isn' enough time in each day to accomplish all the things I would like to do on the daily. I like to stay productive at all times, not the type of person to sit around and watch the idiot box or waste time with bullshit.
I am an ambitious person, I have several goals both long term and short term that I would like to accomplish in my lifetime; I have worked hard all my life and am at a point where I'm trying to figure out what the next challenge and ven
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I don't do movies.....in my opinion that is no way to get to know someone, plus I don't have the attention span, nor is stuffing your face an interesting way to get to know someone.
I dunno somewhere to shoot some pool, drink a beer maybe a glass of wine. I'm down with darts, bowling, roller coasters, haha something interactive, casual, and you better have some intelligent conversation for my ass! Hahaha it's mandatory!! sh*tI'm even down to collaborate on some music, make some beats, play some instruments.....something creative is always a plus! The possibilities are endless the only limit is your own imagination.