Me? I'm just a good man looking for a good woman if you happen to know one :) Looking for that click (some call it chemistry) that comes naturally when two people have personalities that play off of each other. It seems to happen without effort when it happens. If your settings are wrong we can't talk.
Where is my "one" Princess who is geographically available and desirable? Just one extraordinary woman. Seems difficult at times finding a woman whose cork fits back in the bottle. Drama Queen? Keep your pucker unpuckered. Judgmental? Scratch me off. I need a woman of substance. You know - with a bit of depth? Face-to-face needs to occur - little things like body language, your eyes and the twinkle in them, your laugh and your smile. Important? We'll never know where the path will lead until that first step is taken.
I am me, not perfect nor will I be. We should be "about" and not "at" each other, not out to change each other. I believe, "You know what you know when you know it." I find that particularly true in establishing a relationship. You'll know and so will I. I'm an eye contact person. The eyes speak louder than words. Do they sparkle as your mouth moves? We need to "click" so to speak. Some call it "chemistry" but it is what it is.
My lady needs to be my best friend. Intimacy is important, not just sexual intimacy but the inner soul tingling kind. We need to have each other's best interests at heart to make things work. You have my back and I have yours type of relationship.
Are you a woman who isn't afraid to show that she loves a man emotionally, physically, and spiritually? If we disagree can we resolve it, forget it and not carry it forward? Just asking... Seeing everything eye-to-eye might get a bit boring. Like to argue? I'm not your guy. I desire to live the remainder of my life in peace. If we disagree, I do expect you to tell me what the problem is. It can usually be fixed. I can help fix a problem but not a person.
I prefer to be a giver and need another giver in my life. You see "You Get By Giving." Works for me and I try to live that way. I'm not a "stuff" person. Takers wear me out. Somethings are more obvious than others so let me share a tidbit with you - never take more than you give. We all, at times, reach a point where we need the other person to unselfishly give of themselves and I will. It's called meeting the other person's needs and I will willingly do that. It needs to be mutual. If this paragraph scared you then best just run along now or maybe read "The 5 Love Languages."
Like to cook? Is a little kitchen chemistry is in our future? It's a great place to flirt with each other and catch up on the day. I want a woman who wants what she has never had. That would be me :) If you're involved with someone, or just into seeing how many men you can date at once, I can assure you that we won't fit. Having The World's Greatest Love Affair is my quest.
Try not to be judgmental, at least until you have walked a mile in the other person's moccasins and taken the time to know that person. I will treat you fairly so please treat me in the same manner. Did you notice the pic of the bike? Hope you enjoy riding, rallies and being around some really good people. There's a bit of my "bad boy" side coming out when I ride. Bad in a good way though. I drive safely but the "little boy" within me likes to come out and play.
This needs to be about togetherness, not about "I" or "Me." Should we maybe talk? We'll never know what we're missing until we try. If I give you my number please use it or lose it. Should a woman call a man? Should a man call a woman? If you're interested drop me a line, send me your # or ask me for mine. Please save the Winks/Meet Me messages as I won't be able to see your profile. If you're interested then lets talk. I would rather we speak. Lets keep it uncomplicated and real. If you have lost your ability to compromise I'm not a good match for you because life sometimes requires it.
If you're already dating someone then pass me by. I have no desire to get in the middle of any love triangle or that form of higher math. That's not what I am looking for in a woman. Attention is nice and I'll shower you with attention and affection - just you though and not the circus. I don't act my age, look my age and you can't make me! So there!!!
"Love is giving someone the power to destroy you...but trusting them not to."
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
If you aren't looking for your partner in life then you shouldn't probably be looking at me:)
Is it love at first sight or should I walk out and come in again?
I am a monogamous man and looking for the same in my woman. The ability to think outside the box you may find is an art. Try it and see what happens when you do! You may be surprised where that takes you. Please don't come at me "sideways" because I don't take that well at all. Do I speak my mind? Would you expect less?
You learn that even the one person who wasn't going to let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken and you will break hearts too so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You will blame a new love for things an old love did. You will lose someone you love. So laugh too much and what it's like to love and be loved. Be ready for it :) Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin again.
If you got this far then we just might stand a chance :)