Hello gentlemen of POF. I am trying this out because I get tired of hiking alone, the thought of camping alone or with nothing but females is scary. I am a fun loving person who is down to earth and sincere. I love to try new things and meet new people, however I am a bit shy.
I question the intentions of men who approach me, because it is not too comfortable when you know some one is starting the conversation based on looks , and they know nothing about you. This is why I decided to join a dating site. I am hoping I can filter out the quality men here by getting to know them and allowing them to get to know me. Also , I will not feel so intimidated, like I said I am shy. Once I feel like I can trust a person however, I am come out of my shell .
Just to let you know... if your profile, or your message to me includes half naked pictures ... I probably will not respond. I am not interested in "hooking up" I would like to find a quality person for friendship and maybe more.
Big muscle men are intimidating to me. If you message me, I hope you include a soft message, not hey what's up. .. or I probably will not respond.
I am a music lover, I love everything from classical,latin, jazz, hard rock, and trance.
I also enjoy art , I love to paint, it is calming . I may not be that good, but I enjoy what I do.
I become turned off when men approach me and have nothing to say but your pretty can I have your number.
I am absolutely not interested in any married men.
I am not sure if I am willing to date men who have children. When my last relationship ended , I was heartbroken because of my attachment to his child I had bonded with.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
For a first date, I would love a good surprise, certainly not the movies, because I would like to learn who the person is. A museum would be nice.
I don't know , I am easygoing.
If you ever take me on a date, a place with live music is almost a sure winner, but at first maybe something more quiet.