So jumping right into the "sales pitch" portion of this profile...the people closest to me would probably describe me as supportive, sarcastic, entertaining, an "overly cautious" driver and maybe a bit stubborn...but in a good way (mostly:-). Music, swimming, photography, and trips to beach/ocean keep me sane. I have the travel bug....and although I've traveled to nearly every state in the US, I haven't traveled internationally so I have a list of places I want to venture to.
I am career focused and probably work a bit more than I should --but I spend as much time as possible with fam, friends and my pup.
The type of guy I'm looking for is kind, hilarious, employed, honest, confident yet generally humble, and minimally perverse. Since I tend to be a tiny bit Type A ( who may or may not have a color coded calendar organizing my daily activities)--I'm hoping to meet someone who is a bit easier going than I --who can remind me of the importance of occasional spontaneity. Just to be clear--by "spontaneity" I do not mean "jump out of a plane" or "bungee jump". Both terrible decisions I'm not likely to ever take part in.
I'm not looking to be someone's "everything" ....I'm fairly independent and value having a life and friends outside of a relationship as should he. But shared experiences are important to me and I'm finally ready to have someone in my life to share all of life's experiences with--big and small, mundane and exhilarating. So ideally, I'll end up with someone who would rather spend time with me above most other things and prioritizes me and our relationship.
I've had a few bizarre experiences dating online thus the cautiousness you may encounter if we chat. Sorry in advance--you can thank Northern California's 'finest' for that;-).
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm open to suggestions. Unless said suggestions include nudity---which is fairly typical from men on this site.