We are all adults, wanting what you want is fine, be polite for fux sake.. I could shave and cut my hair someday, don't suggest it as an opener in conversation. "you would be handsome without that beard" gets a copy N paste reply.
I don't drink, if this fact ruins it for ya, find some better sh*t to do with your down time.
The golden ratio. Fibonacci. Idéal proportion to ones nature. We begin with visual attraction, we think we are the master of our own decisions, pheromones make the final choices. It's science, we are searching on a digital format for something nature runs.
WE are all weird, love is finding the right amount of weirdness to balance off your weirdness.
No alcoholics or hard drug users, I'm way past it.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Awkward moments are usually funny.