I'm at a point in my life where my focus is self-improvement and investing in my future. I've realized that when I'm in a relationship my priority becomes my girl, which makes it difficult to stay focused on my own goals. For that reason, I'm extremely picky with who I'll date. It's not because I have a fear of commitment, it's purely out of self-interest. I gotta look out for my future family and the best way to do that is to build as successful a life as I can manage.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something with a low level of commitment and obligation that allows you to see if there is any kind of connection without making either person feel trapped.