Like it says, "If you want to know, just ask.". I am an open book, but there are a few guidelines to follow:
1. Please don't send an email with the ONLY word of, "Hi or Hello". I will not ANSWER you. I would prefer a short conversation verses a simple, one worded one that leaves nothing to the imagination.
2. I AM NOT here for a booty-call, FTF, and/or friends with benefits. If you think I will change, think again and continue on...
3. I do have friends and family who are also on POF. Fair warning: WE DO TALK! So, if you think you can get away with talking to us both, you are dead wrong! So, if you are talking to Joli2009 or a girl who goes by the name of Keala, please don't email me.
4. Finally, please don't lie in hopes that it will enhance your over all picture of yourself. I would prefer complete honesty and my feelings getting hurt verses finding out the truth later and I hate you for it. So, do us both a favor, and be REAL! I would greatly appreciate it.
With that being said, PLEASE don't get offended or view me as a snob if I don't respond to your email(s). I know it takes a lot of courage to meet someone, let alone signing up on a on-line dating website in the hopes it does occur. Know that I am flattered, like most women who receive an email from you are, but am only interested in you as a friend. So, thank you in advance for taking the time out to show me your courage.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My ideal first date would have to be the kind of date where neither one of us wants our date to end. It doesn't matter where we are or what we are doing. But, during our date, something makes us realize there is an unexpected spark between us. A spark we want to pursue and one date is not enough to understand it. It's a fairy tale type of date, but I'm a hopeless romantic.