ThoughtfulComplexLady: Keeping It REAL, But can You?
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Modesto, California
50 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Capricorn
ThoughtfulComplexLady is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic
Edu. Field &Will B returning to get My Degree

Newest of the bunch 7-30-2017

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 9 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About I"m Done
Who am I ? I'm a woman who is looking for that certain Companion who I can enjoy our life ...
BTW , Are you Real? Are you Honest? Honesty and god Communication is the Key, First Impressions leave a lasting memory.

I AM NOT ( ~ looking for a player, cheater , dishonesty, a one night stand, Part timer or occasionally hook ups ) ( I would like someone who is honestly looking for a mature relationship eventually), (yes, It takes time and friends first yes I agree , I know it doesn't happen over-night , I'm willing to hold off for that ONE, and I will continue to make it happen , I am not one who just settles, I want what I want))) I want to end this dating site, are you? Someone who can commit and we can make our own memories to last forever. Will you give it your best? Will you be everything I would want? Will I be the only one you would want? it just takes honesty and the connection . I want to close out this chapter and start a new chapter, what the heck, I want to start a new book and go from there.

I love music >>I have a huge selection, I like all genre's. My greatest love is 70's-80's,R&B, Slow, Oldies, Old school, cruising, Classic Rock, Rock and Hip Hop. I do like some country music , I have not ever been to a country music concert, but have been to a few other concerts. Artists who I will never give up on (( Journey, Foreigner, Janet Jackson, Paula Abdul, Bon Jovi, Colbie Caillat, Barry White, Commodores, Tesla, Scorpions, Def Leopard,Kiss, Sade, Whitney Houston, well know you know my music taste. Also there are singers artists that I haven't mentioned that I like. Ask questions and I will answer. I will be honest with you, I am easy to get along with ,we can be friends who share the same things.

My favorite spots,Monterey, Carmel,Sea Side, Reno, Las Vegas, Sparks Nevada, San Francisco, Sacramento, San Jose, Santa Cruz, Salinas, well these are just a few of my favorites..I would love to go to Pismo , Palm Springs, Southern California , Clear Lake.. But the best spot would be in your arms and hand in hand , and by your side exploring the wonderful new places together. Ready to give it a try Let's meet!!

I'm a honest, caring, loving, loyal, committed into my relationship, Respectful, you treat me right & and I'll do the same, I have a huge heart. I have been a single mother who raised her kids on my own and have been here for them and now it's my turn to enjoy my life to the fullest, they are old enough now , but I'm still their "Mother " I will not let anyone come between my children and I will not do it to anyone else., I do believe If I'm happy they will be too. Family, honesty,respect, communication, love, commitment, and affection is 100% my life. If I'm the one you want to see what can develop , just send me a message and we can take it from there. I have learned from past relationships, and have taken time out to be alone, and now I am ready to be loved and to Love.
~~~Only those who respect the personality of others can be of real use to them.. ~~~

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My first date would be officially happen if we both have a spark after initially meeting for coffee , soda or ice cream in a atmosphere where we both feel comfortable in and we can talk and get to know one another to see if there is any kind of connection on both parts. No Games we are all adults, well I take that back, some of us are, the rest are something else. Looking to be positive. If we do hit it off then we can enjoy taking the next step == :)

Then we can talk about a first date. Let's keep it simple and Honest. First impressions will tell the truth and are the Lasting Impressions. Be real and honest. Smile because you want to, not because you have to. Be true to your feeling is the best ..I believe we still can be friends, so go ahead and drop me a message. No LIArs here, I'm tired of some of the B S that is here, the Fakes, and most of all THE LIARs __

Have a pleasant Day ~

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