I am not about to try and sell you.... I am what I am, either try or don't... Your choice... But I will say the following:
But to sum me up, I'm a gentleman, hard working, and have a great sense of humor!!!
I have found on dating sites and in general that woman with kids- Cannot juggle their kids and simultaneously make time to get to know someone. however, woman without children tend to get involved with too many guys making either or, just as difficult. Soooo.... What do ya doooo.... Lol.
I dont care if you have children or not, but just make an effort, be honest, personable and know what you want. If you don't respond to me, I can only assume your not interested, and no sweat, or I'm probably thinking, she's prob insecure or is a stick in the mud and doesn't want a fun guy... :)
I always make an effort , and I am honest with them. I'm not trying to date multiple people at once. I dont wish to hold email/text convo's for a month to never meet. If your life is that busy, then you probably shouldn't be dating... just saying.... I try to respond to all emails I recieve, but if I dont, then I am simply not interested. I truely don't play games. If i like you, ill want to spend time with you. Keep it real, keep it simple, and who knows, a spark might just happen!
What I am looking for,- is to meet to see if there is a connection, continue to talk ( contact should be made by both man and woman), go out, have fun, and see if something is there.. Be mature, positive, and good things will happen. I've been on here before, but found all the chronic daters, and shelled out alot of money for nothing. Be up front, as I will be too. I've never been good at dating, the signs, and I definitely cannot date multiple woman at the same time.
Make an effort!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
from someone on here... just a drink/ coffee... but if after hanging awhile.. I'd do something creative and fun
PLEASE READ BEFORE CONTACTING
I typically try to respond to anyone that says hello or sends that first email but the following probably wont get a response:
* you live in another state ( over 30 minutes is actually too far for me)
* you've acquired an STD from your cheating bf or husband- sorry bout your luck but I like that I am clean and want to keep it that way
* you dont like to smile in pictures
* you have 2 or more children from all DIFFERENT men and your collecting child support from all of them
* you drink to get drunk every weekend
* you have "non-religious" on your profile, but you say you believe in god
* no picture on your profile
* you add me as a favorite and we've never talked before
* your high maintenance, phony, and needy
* your CRAZY and everyone knows it ( or you look crazy in your pics- I've actually seen some and thought, wow, they look nuttier then squirrel shit!