"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. " I guess I decided it was time for a change. What makes me unique well i'm not quite sure how to answer that. i've never looked at myself in that way to be able to answer that type of question. I'm just ME, when I wake up in the morning I thank the Lord for another day. I look in the mirror I like what i see. I'm a good person inside and out. I'm a very positive person, I try to see the silver lining in every situation. My faith is very strong - I'm a part of an amazing Acts Community.
Nobody's perfect- Never judge a book by it's cover :) I'm happy but i've been alone for so long (raising my son's) that I forgot how to be with someone else. I'm so independent that men find it a threat. I own my own home in a nice neighborhood and own a nice car. I have an amazing family. I guess i've been stuck in this cookie cutter lifestyle for so long I dont know how to get out, I'm stuck in my own little world. I'm scared and I dont know the first thing about dating for what is expected. You wanted the truth there you have it.
I love all types of music- I can dance Salsa, Merengne, Cha Cha, Bachata, Hip Hop Country and Waltz. I love to try different types of foods. I will try anything once. How can I really say I don't like something if i've never tired it.
I love all types of movies-execpt horror (not a big fan)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First Date:Coffee Shop I'm not looking for a free meal and 2nd Date Dinner somewhere nice, quite (so we can hear each other talk), If the weather permit somewhere with a patio. One may Two drink is fine, If your an closet alchoholic please dont contact me contact AA. I would like for the focus to be on me - I would like for someone to go out of their way to make me feel special. I want someone who is real, a human being, someone not afraid to admit their not perfect. I dont like guys that HAVE to have the focus on them even if it's a complete stranger. I call them the big show kinda guy, it's all an act. Someone who has manners :) Make me feel beautiful inside and out so that I want to see you again. I'm not a kiss on the first date kinda girl so please to be offended if you try and I pull away. I'm not into one night stands or casual sex- I love my life and there are to many diseases out there for just one night of pleasure.
If a Man Wants You
By: Salma Rumman (View Profile)
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t "be friends."
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.\
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.