UPDATE: It just seriously amazes me how certain people are so quick to "not" take time to let things move slowly to see what happens. How arrogant and shallow so many are. Trust me...your not going to find anyone who will want someone like that in their life if your going to be looking on the outside and not in. I will NOT chase after any man. I give you so many chances and then I'M DONE!!! I don't have any interest being devoted to anyone right now and all I really wanted was a friend that I could talk and share things with. Possibly more but not really so much. If I decide I want more then you will know. However, not to be crude here but if it ever did escalate to a sexual interest then I don't want to waste my time on someone who can't perform or has a problem in that area. It's not just about sex as I've stated below but I don't want anyone who is not capable either. This is a important part to closeness with someone you might have interest in. Another thing....just because I said something about sex in this update DOES NOT mean I'm easy or wanting this so save any disgusting comments on "your" abilty. If I trust someone I'll give it my all but so far NO ONE here is trustworthy I've met or found.
. I have been on this site long enough to say exactly what I want and it may sound harsh but I'm truly done messing around with useless effort made to only find nothing worth my time. I first want to say...if you don't have a job, a driver's license or a way of transportation, please don't bother sending a message. If you want to message me, then be straight forward and sincere. I will not reply to messages that are sexual or crude. I will block you. I want someone who wants to take the time to get to know "each other" and not expect a date right off the bat. I work overnights and honestly don't have much time for a relationship in case it's something special..but I'm also tired of being alone. I don't want or need someone who is only interested in sex as I'm looking for someone who wants more. I'm too old for that teenage crap. If you don't want to make the effort to find more then I'm not the one to message. As I said I work overnights so it may take awhile to reply to a message due to work or sleeping. I'm just asking for anyone sincere to message me and not another notch on your bed post.