Just trying to keep an open mind.I have no expectations on this or anyone else.I am looking to date and meet new people.If something should come of it im not opposed to it either. I am a single father of an amazing 5yr old boy.He lives with me about 50% of the time and the other 50 % with his mother. I am a very active person.I try to go to the gym at least 5 days a week,ski and snowboard,mtn bike,airsoft,beach,travel,and basically enjoy life to the fullest.I work hard and play hard. I am not you're average guy. Ive done and seen things most people never will. I am also stubborn and speak my mind. If you insist on labeling me or putting me in a box, I will put myself their for you! I dont lie, I dont cheat, I dont steal. I am quiet, but if I have something to say believe me you'll hear it.
I work at a university in ct. I am blue collar and proud. Even though I can clean up well I am not your metrosexual type. Thats why you have girlfriends! I am not one of them. Im not into bars or club scene and not looking for someone who is. I have recently come out of retirement and do some private security work also. The reason I mention this is it can take me away from home . I have learned through experience that it takes a certain type of women to be with me.
Strong, loyal, confident, patient, honest,passionate.
I have made alot of mistakes in my life, but have learned from them all. If your looking for a boyscout I am not him! I am also a very passionate person. If i believe in something I will stand for it. If you are the type who thinks it bettar to just not make waves and keep the status quo, you will not like me. I still believe in silly things like God, country, and family and am willing to die for them. Do you feel that way about anything? I hope so.
I am old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I think if 2 people love each other enough they make it work. People give up too easy these days. I know im divorced but it wasn't from lack of trying. Believe me ive had to ask myself many times with the people in my life."whats more important being right or having this person in my life".
I believe in being honest and dont really have much time to waste these days. So if any of the traits ive listed are you, I hope to hear from you.
I know my profile would do really well in Texas, but im not in Tx ;)
Ok I find it pretty sad that I need to add this. I have had alot of responses and have been on quite a few dates in the last month. Heres what ive found. Cowards! I always let the women know if I dont feel theirs a connection. I will usually send a nice message the next day. I have not gotten that same decency in return not once. If you do not have respect, honesty, or courage. Do not write me! Im looking for a real women not a child! Im starting to think the name should be changed to POS! It would be nice to meet some real adults and hopefully this will help weed through the tools.Were adults here and are not all going to be a match. So Man Up! And start acting like adults!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
sure! Meet for coffee or a walk and talk. I dont want to get stuck in a restaurant for 2 hrs with someone I dont like and either do you.