Age: 50
Age: 45
utopianeve: Quirky Seeking Easily Amused Intellectual
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Austin, Texas
41 year old Female, 5' 7" (170cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Leo
utopianeve is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Free Thinker

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Green
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat & Dog  

About Kerri
I am looking for a unicorn, just like the rest of you, eh? (wink, wink, nudge,nudge) So, allow me to describe my unicorn:

1. A man--not just a male by gender, but a real MAN, who's strong and self-assured (self-assured enough to be comfortable enough to also be sensitive, vulnerable, and flawed; in other words, human);
2. He has integrity and morals, without being uptight, narrow-minded, self-righteous, or judgmental; sincere and honorable (an even balance of honesty and diplomacy);
3. He is respectful and considerate, capable of kindness and empathy (seeks first to understand, then to be understood, etc.);
4. He doesn't pretend he's perfect, and is comfortable with imperfections, but, that said, he isn't content with mediocrity; he understands imperfections are opportunities to evolve, and that improvement is a never-ending process, rather than merely a destination;
5. He is intellectual and is truly stimulated by intellectual growth (a lifelong learner), but, though he certainly takes pride in his intelligence, he nonetheless tempers it with humility, lest he indulge a superiority complex;
6. He's shrewd, but not cynical--as a lifelong learner, he is open-minded, so he can be judiciously skeptical without being negative or perpetually suspicious (always expecting the worst of everyone);
7. He is successful--not aimless or (in keeping with #4), content with mediocrity;
8. He's generous with his resources--be they material or non-physical (i.e. his time, himself, etc.); he understands that benevolence is its own reward;
9. He's a practical hedonist (just because he's not greedy doesn't mean he is above serving his own pleasures); to expand on this, he is neither cheap, nor extravagant--he enjoys the finer things without being excessive or strictly materialistic;
10. He is mature, yet not always stuffy and serious--can be playful and has a rich, even diverse, sense of humor.
11. He is humble, and he is noble;
12. He likes kids. Though this may fall at the end of this list, it is, by no means, of least importance; on the contrary, this is the least flexible of all the aforementioned desired qualities. He need not melt at the sight of cherub-cheeked babies, or ooh and ahh over Anne Geddes photographs, or even be a father himself, but he must, above all else, have the utmost regard for the fact that I AM a mother. He must be completely secure with the immutable certainty that I will always love my kids more than anyone or anything, and their needs will, 100% of the time, come first. Frankly, any man who could abide anything less from a woman with children would fail to earn either my respect, or my affection.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
We'll see....

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