Non-Smoker with Average body type
Oakland, California
47 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Christian - other
Black, Leo
FIRSTTHINGTHATCAMETOMIND is looking for a relationship.
Associates Degree
Financial Services

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 8 years
Pets No Pets  

About Me
I hate to fill in all of this stuff. If you want to find out about me, contact me. That's what I'm on here for, to meet people. I think that I am a great catch, but I'm waiting for the correct bait and reel to come my way. I am not interested in meeting men who are self-consumed. (I needed to put down four sentences, so here it is!

So, being on this site for a few days, I realize that I needed to expand on the type of man that I am looking for or who I would be interested in meeting in order to save those that I'm not interested in from wasting their time. At this point in my life, I want a man that is financially secure and professional. I am interested in finding a life partner, so that means that if you come into my life, you will also be in my children's lives. I am raising my sons to be professionals (future Obama's), so my standards are high for the caliber of man that I will entertain. I am not interested in a hook-up or a booty-call. Do not indulge your sexual fantasies to me because I find it offensive, distasteful, vulgar and rude. All people are beautiful in their own way, but I do have a preference for Tall men. (If you are under 5'10", sorry). What race or nationality you are makes no difference to me. I'm only interested in men between the ages of 40 to 60. In addition to being between the age range that I'm interested in, I am only interested in meeting a man that carries himself with maturity. I'm stating that because age can be just a number. I want to chat online first to get a feel of where a person is coming from. I don't want your phone number right away and will not give out mine.

Who am I? I know what I want and I definitely know what I don't want. I hope that doesn't doom me to be single. But I am a believer in: the universe gives you what you ask for. So, I am claiming what I want from the universe. If you are familiar with Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich", then you understand. If you're not familiar, you should become familiar. I also believe that there is someone for everyone. I am an optimist. I try to see the good, but realize within myself that I am not willing to save someone who is a grown-up. I'm a free-spirit, but I'm also a traditionalist in some aspects.

What do I want? What I deserve and I think that is a lot! (smile). I don't want a lot a friends, but would be content with finding one decent man for me.

Pet Peeve on POF: People who send those "I want to meet you messages." What is that all about??!! If my profile and picture have caught your attention and you think that you meet what I am looking for, then send me a real message.

I would love to become acquainted if you are a match for me. Hopefully, I haven't scared you off, because I'm an easy person to get along with and I am genuinely a good person. But, I am now 41 (even though 40 is the new 20), and I just don't want to waste another 10 years on what I know will not be a good fit.