First off, I dont smoke weed anymore, but I can't change my username :-/
Next, I am looking for someone real. And relatively local. So if you are are from another state, there's a 99.99% chance I am not going to entertain you at all. I have been catfished before. I refuse to again, and yet I won't let it define me either. So, that being said...
I am a larger (for now), intellectual woman seeking someone who will challenge my intellect.
I am coming into my own spiritually, but I am definitely Not into organized religion.
I am a very caring, generous, loving woman.
I love to do things for my family and my close friends.
My passion is Music - I try to go to as many concerts as I can afford to: I love live shows!
I am always happy to meet someone who loves music like I do, and who enjoys new experiences
If you are into punk and metal, big time plus!!
Also, because I'm in the medical field, I love helping others when I can. My heart and soul are filled with joy when I do. :-)
Ultimately, I want someone in my life who is genuine, caring, open, and has integrity and spunk, and who won't try to control me, but would rather encourage my growth as we walk our life paths together.
Past relationships have taught me that I must remain true to myself, and I musn't lose myself. Too often, we forget to put our psychological health first and lose ourselves in the other person and the relationship.
I've also learned that things don't always work out the way we want them to - but they usually work out in the way they are supposed to.
Almost everything happens for a reason.
So, with that in mind...hit me up.
But, do, please, know that if all you want is a hookup, I am not the one for you, so keep walking.
No cawkshots, please.
And FYI, if you didn't read it already, I'm a big girl, hence the option to choose: Big & Tall/BBW... So if we did meet up at a show, a bar, a taco stand, or wherever...don't be surprised when you see that I really am a bigger girl lol!
That is all.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Go somewhere public where we can spend time talking, getting to know about each other, see if it would be worth investing time in one another. Shouldn't that be how first meetings go?
Or how about this: We meet at a cafe or bar and start people watching and make up stories about their lives...always interesting.
Less pressure upon meeting allows for both parties to relax and not overthink it.
And movies aren't cool right away, in my opinion. I want to get to know you, not ignore you uncomfortably at a theater. Right?! :-P