I'm a sexy, kind, educated and just downright funny woman (at least my son thinks so) looking to spend time with someone that shares my interests, while expanding my perspective on the world. I may not be everything to everyone, but I would like to believe that I could be great to someone.
Sometimes I think that there should be Rules of Engagement for dating. Basically it would be like the Geneva Convention, except instead of covering the treatment of prisoners of war, it would cover singles (all those that are in relationships and/or married and still 'fishing' would be exempt). If we all agreed to a standard code of behavior, I think this might be an easier process. I try to treat everyone with the kindess and respect that I would like to be treated with. It's been awhile since I've been on this site so I'm a little rusty to the games on online dating. It would be better if you weren't interested in playing any with me because that will hurt my feelings and be pretty lame.
For me, honesty in a relationship, even the beginning stages of, "Hi. My name is ______" is the most important. Basically, to make my heart go "pitter patter", I need to be able to trust you.
*Edited to add - I'm looking to date someone that is within 30 miles of where I live in League City, TX. Ideally, I would date someone on the southside of Houston. What I'm not looking for is a sex partner. There are other websites for that. I would like to find someone to date and see where it goes and if it could develop into a relationship. Peppering me with questions about sex will lead me to say, "Thank you, but no thank you". I'm more interested in learning about someone's heart and history than about their prowess in bed*
**On further note - When I say I want to 'date', that means that I'm interested in getting to know people. I think you date until you get into a relationship. One stage that leads to another. Let's take things slow, keep all hands and feet inside the ride at all times, and we'll all get to our destinations safely.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
On a first date, I like to have a good time and laugh as much as possible. Whatever we can come up to make that happen, I'm game.