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benzgirl99: The way you do the things you do :-)
Smokes Occasionally with Average body type
Lincoln, Nebraska
43 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Other
Caucasian, Aries
benzgirl99 is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 8 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Me
Update : I just recently moved back to lincoln for awhile from LA, been on this site for a few yrs now and not very hopeful about finding someone that moves me through this site , he's gotta be able to move me , and sadly most men don't know how to send out a proper email etc

Proud Italian/Irish American Female!

Mean what you say in your profile, why waste my time or yours trying to get to know each other if your profile doesn't really say what your looking for or your intentions.i am willing to give my heart an soul to a man, that is of the most value to me and should be to him. I know life isn't perfect when it comes to the both sex's an how they interact with feelings or wants ,needs & desires.but have some common honesty guys when you interact with us women. "the real ones"

I am NOT looking for a man to take care of me...I Want a friend who can laugh with me, hang with me, and get naked with me. And NOT get weird about it! A friend that I can put above all others.share my most inner thoughts, my passions dreams an life goals with!( vise versa) I question the validity of this site or even the idea that I can find that one ideal man that can put up with me an my ways.But I am hopeful that something good can arise from this, an that there are still good an decent men here.

Some of you might wonder why I don't put more on this site about myself, but I respect the privacy of myself and my family, if you want to know more about me etc, then you would most likely email me an chat a bit about our perspective lives.

Fav Music: I have several,I love all sorts of music and have a appreciation for all forms..But if I had to list a few, that I am really enjoying currently it would be,Oscar Peterson,Alejandro Manzano & Boyce Avenue, Thelonious Monk,The Sundays,Mazzy Star,Diana Krall,Cranberries,Eddie Vedder,Flogging Molly's,Dropkick Murphy's, Damien Rice,Cas Haley,The Piano Guys(Jon Schmidt)Jack Johnson, Joshua Radin,Miles Davis,The Blow,Pomplamoose ( Check out their version of Single ladies)Edith Piaf ,K's Choice,Bjork( it's oh so quiet),Van Morrison,Leonard Cohen,The Beatles,Cat Stevens,Charlie Parker, Katrina and the Waves',Nina Simone, Roy Orbison,Lena Horne,The Pretenders,Vladimir Horowitz & Liszt's Hungarian Rhapsodies,Herb Alpert & The Tijuana Brass ,Mozart Marriage of Figaro,The Buckinghams. ( RadioHead, Creep). so many to list!....

I am also a huge fan of the Playing For Change Project.

Fav Books:My Land and My People,The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings,A Child Called "It,Into the Wild,Anne Of Green Gables ,Complete Vampire Chronicles ,Dante's Inferno,The Catacombs of Paris,The Rise and Fall of Ancient Egypt,The Tudors: The Complete Story of England's Most Notorious Dynasty,Queen of France, A Biography of Marie Antoinette by Andre´ Castelot,Joseph Campbell.

Fav Movies I enjoy alot of off beat type stuff, Silent Films,Black & White, the classic stuff,but I also enjoy newer type movies and tv shows as well.to name just a few movies that I have always been stuck on, would be ,Memoirs of a Geisha,Bed of Roses,My Fair Lady ,When Harry Met Sally ,Pretty Woman,The Quiet Man,City of Angels,Princess Bride,Willow,The Dark Crystal,The Labyrinth,The Goonies,Pretty In Pink,Waiting to Exhale.The Notebook,Children Of A Lesser God,

Fav Tv Shows:Eureka,Sons of Anarchy ,The Killing,Heros,Scandal,Haven,Charmed,Breaking Bad,Weeds,Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives ,The Big Bang Theory,1000 Ways to Die ,MANswers,Spike Tv ,History Channel,FX,TNT,National Geographic ,PBS,Cspan,Bloomberg Tv & Most National News Stations.

Fav Food:Thai cuisine,Panera Bread,Soups & Salads..and of course will never turn down a T-bone steak or Lobster!

Bucket List/Life List: Travel the World( Fill a Passport Book),To have a Eat,Pray,Love Experience,To Settle down( its not fun being alone or doing things alone)Generally overall,( TO Live Life).To learn how to play a Shamisen.

Ideal Man:I do not like listing certain things I am looking for in a man,sure there are things that attract me , however life is to short to be judgemental or overly picky ,and I dont want to limit myself to one certain type of man.What I value most is a Man's word,If he is of good nature,does his best to make a difference ,not only in his own life,but those around him.
Things You Should Try: Chippewa Falls Wisconsin,They have a festival called FatFar, basically You float down a river for a whole day,also try Leinenkugel's Berry Weiss Beer!,The Brewery is in Chippewa.An don't pass up a chance to visit the Wisconsin Dells.

10 ways make yourself attractive to woman

Be confident in who you are.
Have a sense of humor.
Show good manners.
Be respectful.
Be controversial.
Be sensitive.
Ask her what she wants and likes.
Don't just tell her you do, but put your trust in her.
Tell her about one time your feelings got hurt.
Kiss her softly, then kiss her passionately

10 secrets you need to know

All women like surprises; women believe they should be surprised at least once a month.

All women have fantasies. A man should take the time to find out her fantasy.

Women want a man to
be sensitive yet fight for them
Women want a man to be gentle and rough at the same time.

Women want to be told they're beautiful, then after a time told they're sexy.

Women want their man to notice when another man tries to pick them up, but refrain from jealousy.

Women will alter their appearance with a new hairstyle or buy something skimpy for themselves, not a man.

A woman will groom herself that day if there is a chance for her to meet someone that night.

Women believe in the fairytale and will look at most men in the first 30 seconds as if they could be the prince they have been looking for.

If a woman really likes a man, she will spend all day trying to look good for him and still not feel perfect, yet at times she will not be made up and feel perfect.

P.S if you are trolling, just keep on rolling..!!

Playing quietly, to herself,
In a graceful expression,
Always moving smoothly,
Never hesitating,
Peaceful, serene
Softly caressing the keys, as one would thin glass
Then, agitation.
The fingers move faster, curling with energy.
Agony touches it's tone.
Crescendo, slur, sharp.
Then the song's tempo slows.
She stretches, touching the last chord, fingertips quivering.
Relieved, then, satisfied is
The Pianist.

“Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Dinner in a quiet place, A outdoor Music event,(Jazz or Blues),Mini Golf, so many options of things to do, But mostly it would depend on the date an what we would both agree on.

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