I am career oriented and have learned from being a project manager to plan as much as I can, but allow for flexibilty. I'm also in school but will make time for someone who is capable of making plans & putting in effort. Spontaneity is wonderful, but first show some consistency.
I generally have a smile on my face & joy in my heart. Positivity is a choice, my daily choice. I've recently moved to Sacramento and live in a peaceful environment. I'd like to meet someone with stability, good common sense, thoughtfulness. Someone who is on the same trajectory in life, is a good conversationalist, & doesn't mind taking a moment to get to know me and I him. All else will fall in line.
This sums up how I feel about having a relationship:
"Unless it’s mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it’s a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love shouldn’t be one of them."
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Somewhere where conversation can flow.