Hi! My name is Betty. I am 22-year-old Hispanic that lives in (east) San Jose.
One of the first things I would like to say is: PLEASE, please, PUH-LEEZ do not contact me if you just want to "hook up". Im not in to that. Don't bother wasting your, and more importantly, MY time. I would like to think of myself as a classy and old-fashioned. I have high morals and standards, so know in advance I AM NOT DTF or whatever! =/
Do not ask me for my phone number right away. It tends to scare me off. Please take the time to get to know me and talk to me a little before anything.
Now that that is out of the way... Howdy! :) I go to San Jose Job Corps where I am studying Transportation. I also go to De Anza college and Major in Psychology. (I happen to be only a few classes short of getting my BA!)
I am currently working for CalTrain/Amtrak as well. So, I am kind of a busy girl. But, I have a lot to offer as well as a lot going for me. I do speak Spanish and English fluently and I am currently learning ASL (American Sign Language). I am highly sarcastic. (Sometimes people cannot tell if I am serious or not. But, you get used to it the longer you are around or talk to me.)
I am a lot of fun. I am very energetic, giggly and charismatic. I am looking for someone that can make me laugh, because I always have everyone around me smiling or laughing and just feeling good about themselves in general. :) I need someone patient.
Which reminds me; I dont care if you are religious, atheist, "spiritual", agnostic, whatever! i wont push my ideals on you, ao please dont bash on my religion, beliefs and faith. I WILL NOT want to date someone who will have a problem with that.
I would like someone honest, because I am very honest and blunt. I like people who know who they are and what they want in and out of life. I want someone passionate, empathetic, dedicated, and who can just keep up with me as well as put up with me. I am not materialistic. I do not expect or hope to be pampered or treated like a Queen. But, I am a sap and a hopeless romantic (so, brownie points for being cute and cheesy.)
I love music and I love singing. I have a horrible voice and I am sorry for it. But, that never slows me down. I listen to EVERYTHING and anything! From country to metal. From jazz to rap. I love it all...except dubstep! I hate it. (I'm sorry.)
I love playing on my PS3 and I bet I can whoop you in Black Ops; Zombies! ;p I am a big internet nerd and spend most of my down time (the few times I actually allow myself to relax) either playing on my PS3 or watching Netflix, watching old cartoons like Rocko's Modern Life, Freakazoid, Aaaah! Real Monsters, All That, Khenan and Kel, The Amanda Show, Kablam!, Doug, etc. I am also a huge ANIME nerd. And, I mean the old school stuff like Gundam Wing, Yu Yu Hakusho, Outlaw Star, and Inuyasha is okay, I guess. In general, I think im kind of a geek at heart.
My favorite movie is the Nightmare Before Christmas. I dont really watch a whole lot of TV anymore. I am usually out and about either working or finding something productive to do with my time. I like to volunteer as much as I possibly can, as well.
I dont really know what else to say about myself at the moment. I am so awkward online... I mean, think about it. I am technically trying to sell myself to everyone reading this or trying to convince someone that I am worthy of their time. But, in reality, you dont know me. Its so nerve wrecking too. Because you never know how to start a conversation or how things are going to go or what really is going to happen. lol! Its insane. But, in the quest for love, I suppose this is just one of those small things we do to try and find it. If there is anything else you would like to know about me, please dont be shy like me. Feel free to just start talking to me. I swear I am really nice and I dont bite! Hopefully my long ass "about me" section does not make me sound too mean and scares everyone away! LOL
P.S. If you want to get a BIG PLUS FROM ME, message me first! If you click on the "yes" button on the "meet me" thing, message me! Dont wait for me to come to you! Message me. Girls dont like chasing after guys. We like to feel wanted. You will score browny points with me if you come to me first! ;p
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Honestly, I have no idea. I have only ever really been in 3 "serious" relationships and none of those men ever really put forth too much effort in trying to be cute or romantic with me. So, I have never really been out on a date. I guess if I had to paint a "perfect" picture of my ultimate dream date, it would just be the cliche go see a movie, go have a nice dinner somewhere, and maybe walk around somewhere, talking, getting to know each other better.
I am in love with the stars, moon and the ocean, so anything at night or near the ocean will automatically score you brownie points with me. lol