Shadelm: I love that I'm PERFECTLY IMPERFECT
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Washington, District Of Columbia
32 year old Female, 5' 9" (175cm), Christian - other
Black, Gemini
Shadelm is actively seeking a relationship.
Some University
Film/TV Junkie
Administration Specialist

This is what a 50 pound weight loss looks like. Proud of myself. Clean eating and working out is the only way to do it!!!

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets No Pets Second Language English

About Shade''''
FYI: 1. I do not respond to one word messages. Even POF gives the suggestion of "making your message stand out." 2. I can tell when someone hasnt read my profile. I know its long but sheesh at least skim through it. Don't ask me something that I clearly mention below. Now lets carry

I had to edit my section because my how things have changed since I've started a profile a few years ago. I've been on POF on and off. I've met some cool people on here and actually managed to somehow get a relationship out of this online bizz. Well I guess since I'm back on here is an indiciation that it didn't Well let me start by saying I am a Christian. I'm not perfect but spirituality is very important to me. Being that God is still working on me...I'm not here to judge on where one is on their spiritual journey. You just have to believe. I'm big on one's personality because it goes a lot further than one's looks. I value family and friendship. I think laughter is the cure to many things, I love to laugh. I love listening to music.... All kinds of music but not a fan today's hip-hop. I'm easy to get along with and just a girl who wants to live and not exist.

I think Martin was one of the best sitcoms ever. Every now and then...I will watch episodes of Martin all day!!

I am NOT your ride or die chick. I have questions. Where are we riding to and why I gotta die? Can't I just be your "Call me later..stay at home" chick? Lol

Yes, Im a woman. I'm a hopeless romantic. I push doors that clearly say PULL. I laugh harder while trying to explain what I'm laughing at. I walk into a room and forget why I was there. I sometimes count on my fingers in Math. I tend to hide pain from loved ones. I say it's a long story, when it's really not. I cry more than people think. I care about people who don't care about me. I try to do things before the microwave beeps. I listen to you even when you don't listen to me. And a hug will always help. Yes, I'm a woman!!!

If your PROFILE pic is of you and another guy....please do not send me a message.

If you have any pics where you are trying to expose your "private areas", please do not send me a message.

If you have pics showing off piles of money, please don't message me. Its a complete turn-off. To me that speaks to your personality.

Also, I'm tall for a woman and I like a guy who is taller than me. I prefer 6 feet and up..Thanks in advance :-)

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
NOT THE MOVIES...somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other to see if there's a connection ;-)

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