I am a single mom with two boys (16 and 19) that are my world. I am also a career woman who loves her job and enjoys what she does. I am looking for someone that shares the same beliefs that I have when it comes to relationships - trust, honesty, respect, companionship and eventually love. I believe in communication between two individuals and you cannot be in a relationship or get to know someone if you don't communicate.
My best friend describes me as a strong, independent, beautiful person inside and out who has a big heart ready to share with someone who is not perfect but perfect for me. I am shy at first but once you get to know me you will see that I am just a girl standing in front of a boy wanting to be loved too.
I don't do well with three items -jealousy, playing games or lying. I am not a jealous woman or insecure nor do I play games. LET ME REPEAT I DON'T PLAY GAMES. If you say you are looking for a relationship than mean it. If you are looking for a booty call...not interested either.
I am looking for a confident man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to say it. A man who wants to spend time with me, hold my hand, kiss my neck when no one is looking, send me a text in the middle of the day to just say hello, cuddle on the couch to watch a movie or go out to a dinner or have friends over for drinks and have fun.
What else am I looking for in a guy that I know exists (somewhere)....
1. Someone who doesn't talk about their ex all the time or poorly about her (we are all divorced for a reason, I get it). I'm also done with the guys who are separated...don't care how long it has been...get divorced then contact me. Sorry to be blunt but been burned twice now and wasted my time.
2. Someone who talks about themselves all the time and has no interest in me, my day or what I have to say.
3. I am not materialistic and toys, homes and cars don't get me off - a secure and loving man does.
4 There also needs to be chemistry between us both outside the bedroom and inside. Kissing is very intimate to me and one kiss can make it or break it.
5. Please no drama. It's amazing how woman are accused of drama when it's actually some men too! I thought at this age we would have our s**t together. I do.
I take care of myself BUT I am not a yoga or Pilates nut! I laugh hysterically when every profile says "hiking, biking, walking, running, etc." - give me a break - I am all for physical exercise but just because we live in the bay area doesn't mean you HAVE to do these things in order to be attractive - just be honest.
So if after reading what I have wrote, still sparks your interest, send me an email and lets see where it takes us from there.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I am a fan of baseball and football as well as a good dive bar. A first date could include either seeing a game at the stadium or at a dive bar watching the game, talking and having a beer. If not a sports fan, then grabbing a cup of coffee and sitting outside on a park bench and getting to know each other will work too.