asbifem: A Journey of a Thousand Miles Begins With...
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Oakland, California
47 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Non-religious
Asian, Leo
asbifem is actively seeking a relationship.
Masters Degree
health sciences

Sept 2017

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 6 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets No Pets Second Language Chinese

About Me
I've climbed Mt. Whitney, drummed at Burning Man, and backpacked solo through Central America. I enjoy museum trips, hands-on activities, farmer's markets, film festivals, and hot springs. Art, culture, and adventure are all experiences I look forward to. My solo trip to Cuba last year was an epic adventure. I'd prefer to have a companion on my next trip abroad. Where shall we go together?

I laugh easily and often; am playful and affectionate; and I treat people with kindness. Other descriptors include -- intelligent, easy-going, sensual, honest, and self-aware. Yeah, I can go "deep", and just completed a Level 1 workshop with HAI... I also pay my bills on time, give everyone the benefit of doubt (with the exception of the Liar-in-Chief), and am a devoted mother to my son.

What I am seeking is a relationship of equals -- my primary partner -- a best friend and lover. A “grown-up” who communicates openly, welcomes intimacy, and follows through on his promises. The type of relationship I want can be called "monogamish" (bonus points if you know the reference!), because I am happiest when significantly connected to someone. As long as the foundation of our relationship is strong, we can customize everything else (including any future "open-ness") into what works for both of us.

You should message me if...
-- there is at least one recent picture of your face, without sunglasses!
-- you have time & space & a real desire to date.
-- you live within 1 hour's drive from me.
-- your EQ and communication skills are above average.
-- you are kid-friendly, but do not want to make any more babies.
-- you have a full head of hair and most of your teeth! :o)
-- you are poly friendly.
-- you are GGG.
-- you lean left of center politically.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I believe that chemistry can only be assessed face-to-face. A first date ought to be something low-key and casual, such as sharing a cup of coffee/tea together, or going for a walk. An environment that allows us to talk and get a sense of each other would be great.

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