Here is a little about myself. I am an amazingly complex simple man. A walking oxymoron. I pretty much love everything from the smallest grain of sand to the largest mountain. I tend to stay in the flow with the cosmos and live in the now as often as possible. I look around and see the beauty in all. I have a great sense of what people are feeling and I am somewhat of an empath. I am an extremely honest and open individual however my dreams and aspirations are personal and I'll share them with with you when I get to know you a bit better, plus there are to many to list. I have a high level of energy most of the time and tend to be doing all the time, even when I am doing nothing.
On a personal note I am a divorced father of 2 incredible boys 19and 14, they are my angels ,and always will come first.They are an inspiration to me and just thinking of them makes me smile. I have full custody of my oldest and my little man on weekends arrangements, its tough but we all make the best of our time together. I love my boys so much and my life seems to center around their activities. So finding time for me is hard, late night free time,/early morn quiet, I love peace and quiet.
I build custom homes, and remodel old ones, for a living. I have a serious work ethic, however work stays at work for me.I work out 8 hours a day at my job and am not in to going to a gym but I do get plenty of excercise outside of work staying active with kids and friends, hiking, playing sports and other stuff.
I'm on this site to find a woman who is interested in having fun with me. I'm hoping I can meet a friend and a lover I guess. I do not want to rush into a serious relatioship, however, I would love it if I found someone who was willing to take it slow, and if things are right, it will turn in to something meaningful and full of love and passion. I guess I am particular in the woman I chose to date. I love a sensual woman! I love makin whoopi all day with my woman,(if time ever allows lol) so I need a woman equaly as frisky.
Writing was never my strongpoint as you can probably tell. I love many things from reading, I have spent thousands of hours in libraries across the country, yet still can't spell or write very well.
I like sports, was the captain of my wrestling team and lacrosse team in HIGH school. Love to play em more than watchem.
OH. how I love music. music any kind of music! (old dead head and hippie at heart) I love it all when it comes to music, honestly yeah I even dig opera or Gregorian chants. My brain thinks in words, but my soul thinks in music.
I took the chance to travel when young and learned a ton about myself and life(always learning), we really need to enjoy every day.
I have been on POF for a while and have checked out many profiles and was able to meet some really nice women, however no long term success. I don't always know what to say when trying to let someone know that I am interested in them. So on that note, If I do e mail you, it is because I am interested in getting to know you. Hopefully my messages wont be to cheesy.
You know what I am finding extremely amusing about this site? It is that 80% of the profiles I read, the women state that they like to go hiking. Why is that when I go hiking, the trails are not filled with women hikers? ____, I am lucky if I cross paths with anyone. Where are all these so called hikers. Just thought that was amusing, hope you do to. Maybe we will really stumble cross paths out on the trails. Stay positive, and let your love light shine.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
How about a bullfight on acid, or I'm hoping this site will allow me to communicate with women to set up potential first dates. We can decide what a first date will entail together. Thats fair, right?
If you like suprises on the other hand, well then I can pull something fun to do from my little bag of tricks or out of my butt. I like to keep it simple though, to see if we have a connection, coffee or a drink and if we do connect , well options are limitless........
Have fun on your quest for love.