Age: 43
Age: 44
with_the_flow2: Looking for my other half.....
Smokes Occasionally with Average body type
Sandisfield, Massachusetts
45 year old Male, 5' 7" (170cm), Other
Caucasian, Leo
with_the_flow2 is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Free Thinker
Event Production , Alt.Healing, former Medic for L

The last stop on a 15 nat'l park and nat'l monument epic, camping, backpacking,hiking roadtrip with my son. Summer 2016. 1.5 months...12,000 amazing miles. THAT is living, THAT is vital !! . All those with Wanderlust, hit me up ....if U are inclined.

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About Me
Update : 9/10/17
Renting a house in the woods on 5 acres in the Berkshires near CT border. Just have to find a decent , stable roomate. Hoping for an artist or writer as the house is big and has a separate wing that would be good for a writing or art work space. If u know of someone, please hit me up. Thx

Also time for me to adopt another big canine into my life again :). Hoping for an Akita

Update: 7/26/17

Former Water Protector, frontline Medic, Alt . Healer, Camp developer and non denominational Spiritual Advisor @ StandingRock ,ND via .Presently considering a nursing degree or rather...finishing it.
Totally living out of my vehicle and varied campsites presently ..as a result of being in ND for almost 4 months over winter ,volunteering on the Rez. Will be New England and Tri-State based for now. Kinda going where the wind and the Creator leads me . Yes I work ( presently in Event Production in upstate CT, tri state corner) Yes i have a vehicle.
Just following my heart and the whispers in the wind for a time...and soul searching.

Would love to meet someone with some depth, somewhat spiritual (not religious) whom appreciates spontaneity and a sense of adventure. Open minded , sincerely compassionate and non judgmental are important characteristics to me. Having a wanderlust also plays big with me. The desire or need to help others or at least the understanding of that is also important. Most people come before my own needs and desires.

Mitakuye Oyasin
The following is my original profile . It is a bit dated at this point but most of it still applies.
Blessup to ya if U endure till the end . Lol ....

Hopefully the following wont make u yawn, it is an atypically long profile and yet it there is much, much more to me. Congrats and thank you in advance , to those who actually read through it ;) !

I AM a nature spirit that lives to spend as much time outdoors as I can, coupled with spending quality time cuddling with my honey(when I have one,that is)......

Sooo about me: many layers but not inaccessible. I love to laugh.Sometimes I cry ! Its the sensitive empath and Italian in me ;) . But sensivity does not beget weakness, if you believe otherwise....no point in reading further mmmK ?

Spirituallly I am more on the Native American/ Buddhist side of things but I respect ALL.Was raised Catholic. Changed THAT when I was 13 ! When I pray, I pray to many different spirits and in many ways. Certain Arch Angels, Jesus, Kwan Yin, Buddha and others including deceased family.

Am pretty much a hippie at heart and most certainly a tree hugger/lover. Toured with the GD across country a number of times in the late 80's. Use to be a vendor on "Shakedown Street" selling falafel and crystals I mined in Arkansas. Those were magickal and happy dayz. And no, I'm not a typical Deadhead. I'm not a typical anything ! But i DO have a wanderlust and that will never go away. ;). Long , backcountry drives to nowhere are always nice with a partner in crime.

I have been based in the Berkshires for over 7 years now. . Unfortunately I have yet to find the One .But I remain hopeful and appreciate what I have learned from my experiences on this site ,both bad and good. I pray they find what they are looking for.

Lots of transformations have occured within me ,karma paid and lessons learned.

I enjoy deep coversations about religion, philosophy, the nature of reality, history, all things clinical,psych,poetry,music, BoB Marly, ,nature,animals,morality,spirituality,energy..all good topics.And soooo many more.

I have loved, lost,grieved,fathered,overcome, had amazing adventures throughout this beautiful country in"most of the states besides Alaska,Hawaii and Maine
,cheated death on a number of occasions, laughed almost to cardiac arrest and abdominal rupture many times,gone to my share of reggae festivals here in the US and in Jamaica,

I AM 420 friendly and am actually an advocate for legalization for many logical reasons. Hooray for Massachusetts passing medicinal ! Its such a better alternative to the pantheon of harmful prescription drugs . Now they just need to actually open enough places for real patients to go to, especially the terminal ones . Hellooo State of Mass, git off yer Ass !!! And open some Recreational stores too, PLEEEEEZ !!!.
As Peter Tosh sings "Legalize it...Don't criticize it " .

I am a hardwired caregiver. Have worked in and out of Healthcare for 23yrs in many different capacities. Was a clinically trained, deep tissue massage therapist for 15yrs full time. I am also a second degree Reiki practitioner. Considering applying to a professional nursing program presently ( 7/ 17)
I am at my best in crisis situations or medical emergencies OR in the woods(camping,hiking,being)....or...even better....cuddling in a tent somewhere near a river or deep in the woods next to a lake or pond. I LOVE Water and I really love Fire.

I own 2 kayaks and like to use them as often as I can on spontaneous adventures or floats throughout the region.

Have been lacking the company of someone that I enjoy being with,sharing with, really dig and am atttracted to mentally,physically,emotionally and spiritually. Yes, ALL of those things are very important to me.... I am all man but I was raised primarily by a woman and have grown up respecting and "predominately" understanding the women in my life. I am comfortable with my sensitive side ...more so than most men .I feel it a strength.

. I am not a typical Leo by any means.Though I do have a lot of fire in me . My passion and love/zest for life,love,nature,adventure,spontonaiety,art can be be quite high.But this fire sign also understands how to adjust the flames as necessary ;)

I LOVE the sun,the earth, the moon and the stars .....and will delightfully gaze upon them till I leave this body.

There is much.much more I could write....as you might guess I like to write ;) .

Sooo anyhoo, it all comes down to ..... I am looking for a life partner. Not just a casual encounter,not a drama filled dating game either.

These are musts for me in whom I seek :

Independent in mind and spirit
Active physically because you actually prefer your body that way...for yourself ..first !
Spiritually open minded
Nature and animal lover (extra points for dog lovers/owners, especially big ones)
intelligent but not arrogant about it
not afraid to get dirty in the garden
free spirited but not "flaky or flighty" ( at least one toe on the ground please)
NO crazy Ex's lurking/stalking...please
And Compassiona

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Somewhere in public( bar, restaurant, park ) , or an activity that neither of us have tried.

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