i could write the same things that seems to be in everyone else's profile, but basically we are all looking for the same things anyway...well those of us that are looking for something more than hookups that is. everyone has their ideal for what they are looking for, a mental image of what their perfect guy is like. but its not just about looks. its the whole package. personality. confidence. humour. compassion. integrity. someone with just good looks isnt really good for anything but a trophy and is usually too in love with themselves to care enough about someone else. (ouch, that was judgemental).
i have been on dates and had high hopes and been greatly disappointed, but then there have been times when i thought "what the hell am i doing here" and had an awesome time with what turned out to be a great guy. so now i take things at face value. doesnt mean that i dont know what i want. just means that i know that there are different ways to get where a person wants to go. the easy way is usually pretty boring but the hard way is seldom worth it. thats what the voices in my head tell me to say.