I'm 35 years old, I work very hard and love my job. I've been in a lot of relationships and for whatever reason, they always seem to turn out the same. I want a woman who is confident and has high self-esteem. I want a woman who KNOWS what she wants in life and a relationship. I can only imagine the negative perception men must be getting on these online dating sites. I bring that up because I'm a gentlemen & a man looking for substance & content in a relationship. Life is too short & we only get one to live (as far as we know anyway) & I WILL not spend it unhappy & I will not settle for anything less than what I want as it concerns my significant other.
Looks aren't everything but they are a lot!!! I'm looking for a women who is classy, sexy, smart, confident, & independent.
I'm lookIng for someone I can share my life with, now does that mean love, marriage, etc I dont know; those aspects work themselves out as the relationship progresses or regresses. If I chose to put effort into you, build a relationship, date, etc. Then I'm only engaging in that with you; I don't share. If you feel the need to see multiple guys at the same time please do, I won't be one of them.
Honesty & integrity are literally everything!!!!!
Jealousy & codependent behavior is IMMENSELY unattractive and is a sign of emotional & personal immaturity, low self esteem & confidence; unfortunately those traits appear after a caring relationship has been established. If you have those behavioral tendencies, please don't contact me.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I don't pretend to have a set plan for 1st dates, I actually find them quite difficult because the interaction between us dictates how the first date goes. Further complicating this is I am new to this, so the fact that I'm having a date with a handful of emails & pictures. So I think it would be something along the lines of perhaps going to grab a drink or coffee in a quiet place and talk and we'll go from there.