SICK OF EDITS LOL : You ever question yourself, like wow I know I am attractive,right? What makes certain men that know damn well they have no chance in hell or paradise keep contacting you? Like stop wasting your time. I understand Jay Z and Rick Ross gave many confidence, but their situations are different. Even though that does not matter to me either. As mean as this may seem, just stop and try elsewhere. I am not all of that, but I know damn well I can pull better. This is entertainment for sure now
ANOTHER EDIT : This may be mean and shallow sounding...I think I am done with POF. This is a joke, being on here. WOW! Where are the fine and intelligent black men on those dating commercials? I get so many messages and NOT ONE stands out as handsome or worth it. Online, you stop because there is a physical attraction first...I have not had one attraction. I mean just a little bit of attraction. Not to discourage anyone up here, but this site is not for everyone...definitely not me. Good luck everyone, I am going back to the old way of meeting people.
Edit 2017: The dating game has gotten more awful! You men are lazy! You don't know how to court a woman. Whores made it easy for you. Man up already! I'm for damn sure not going to respond back if you say something like," Hit me up when you can." I'm not chasing you sir, especially in these heels lol It's called conversation. Keep it going and break the ice. Texting is ok too. Why are you rushing to meet a stranger and can't even hold a decent conversation. Us real women know what you guys are after when you rush to link up. Foh , I'm adopting a cat lol Great communication and honesty is all that is wanted.
I'm not picky ! I'm just sure of what I want. Men who are about games are usually offended by that. A King would love that about his Queen.
Just want to meet a good person
tired of meeting losers and people that waste your time to break your heart
What happened to old school courting?
I want to give love one last try
I just want to know what it feels like to meet and be loved by a good man.
All these lonely people in the world yet we seem to miss one another and end up with people that are no good.
I will no longer reach down to find a mate,I will look across from me instead.
ETA- Things that makes my skin crawl-
Asking for my number right away,can I weed out the pervs first?
Once we swap numbers,I ABSOLUTELY HATEEEE when a guy says ..send me a pic..OMG makes me so mad.Why? I hated to post pics on this site.Pics last forever and I really do not want your phone filled with my pics.Not everyone has good intentions~ I am the woman you see in the couple of pics I posted.Case closed
I also DO NOT date men over 37. I'm actually into men around or near my age.I want to grow old with someone~ I also DO NOT date much younger guys either.This online dating stuff is scary as ever....