Not a recent divorcee. Been burnt more than once. This is the primary reason for not dating for the last 8+ years. And, as the title states, not entirely certain I want to either.
But, I guess, a little about me... I'm a guy. My son has moved out on his own, and my daughter visits. I play guitar in a couple of bands for now. And I work. That's the bulk of my activities. And I help others with whatever because I seem to have a tough time saying no. And I sleep. If I'm lucky, I can get some TV in there.
Obviously there's still hope, or I'm just dumb. That's where you possibly come in. I don't know what I'm looking for, but I'll know it...if that makes sense. I know this doesn't help, but my apprehension is practically blocking my ability to even dream about it. Nice, huh? The details can be gone over when/if I ever pull the trigger on this.
Oh, one thing, my sense if humor is dark and/or disgusting. A prude should not apply. Ding...done!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
We'll see if there is one first. Don't be so pushy little iPhone app! Update:Android app...whatever. Like it matters..."yay, I have toys"
First date should be casual. No need for anyone to be nervous. It's not the end of the world, and as far as rejection, who cares, right? It's just a word. Whichever side is doing the rejecting, it doesn't matter. A relationship is a two way street, if they're both not into it...it's not gonna work. Ok, so I drifted off a bit there, sorry.
A first date should be some place not loud, so you can talk. How else ya gonna get to know someone. I don't believe in holding back either. Honesty is the only way. Whatever you're trying to hide, it'll get found out. Kinda like guys who stuff their pants or wear wigs, hehe. How long is that secret gonna last?
Anyway, enough rambling. Can't reveal everything/anything on here...need something to talk about on that mythical first date. Whoo boy! Text is not an ideal media for sarcasm. Or is it?